The waiting is killing me.....
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Posted:Jan 18, 2015 12:31 pm
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I have had 3 interviews for possible jobs that I am waiting to hear back about and I have another one on Monday morning for a 4th. I am really nervous because they have all gone well so far and I just want to know either way what is going on.
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People as Sex Objects
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Posted:Dec 7, 2014 11:31 am
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2016 7:04 pm
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I was told earlier that someone appreciated the fact that I did not see women as just sex objects and I appreciate them for more than that as evidenced by my desire to make sure that a woman I am with sexual has her needs and wants met as best as I can.
While I agree that people should never be thought of as JUST sex objects it does not mean that I do not see them as such, it means that I do not only see them as such. People are never just one thing or another, they are made of alot of different parts and those come together to make them who they are.
I have seen some women who actually like being seen as a sex object by their partners, it was what turns them on or makes them feel naughty (same with guys), but a good partner will remember that they are not just that.
Does that make any sense? lol
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Serivce Top - clarification
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Posted:Dec 7, 2014 11:24 am
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2014 9:44 am
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I was messaging a friend and they thought I was bisexual because I said I was a Service Top because according to the Urban Dictionary it is something that only applies to gays but this is not true. It can apply to any that fits the following discription:
Service Top
a Service Top is a partner who is the active participant, applying the activities or techniques of BDSM "play" upon (a) bottom partner(s), but who does not dominate the bottom, and instead acts upon the wishes and desires of the bottom. The application of various BDSM techniques may be requested, or even directed, by the bottom partners(s) who have de facto control of the context.
So as I said to my friend, basically if you ask me to do something like put you in bondage, put clothespins on your nipples and flog you, I will do it because you want me to, not because I am trying to Dominate you. [ ]
I am a Service Top because I like providing pleasure to the person I am with, regardless of if I am receiving any in return. I mean, don't get me wrong, I love having a partner pleasure me, but there are times when all I want to do is pleasure them and that is all.
Anyone else feel this way?
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Do Lunch or Not Do Lunch? That is the question....
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Posted:Nov 7, 2014 7:39 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2014 11:15 am
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I was contacted by a woman on OKCupid a couple of weeks ago and she just wanted to praise me for the honesty in my profile about what I am looking for and to encourage me on my weight-loss goals. We messaged back and forth for the day and I asked if she would like to meet for lunch or something soon. She said yes and that I should find a place and contact her when I had it so that we could pick a day (she works from home so her schedule was a little strange).
I contacted her back a couple of days later with a place but she said that she would need a rain check because of some work issues. I told her that was cool and to contact me when she was ready.
A week and a half went by and I contacted her to see how things were going and if she had any ideas on when she would want to try lunch again. It took her a couple of days and she finally got back to me.
She appologized for taking so long to get back to me and that things were still a little hectic and that she was not blowing me off. She also mentioned that she is looking to move to NYC at the beginning of the year with a friend but would still like to meet up for lunch if I am interested.
What do you think? She seems pretty cool but i have actually done this before and it sucked meeting someone that I liked just to have them move away.
Lunch? or no Lunch?
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It really is a small world after all...lol
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Posted:Nov 2, 2014 3:33 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2014 7:16 pm
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So I had a date last week with a woman from here that I had been chatting with for a couple of weeks prior to that. She was very cool and nice. We are going to make plans to go out to karaoke soon.
The reason i bring it up is because II had the funniest thing happen during our conversation and it is not the first time in my life that this thing has happened to me. While we were talking about places that we have lived and it turns out that we both lived in the same small town in NY at the same time. We spent a few minutes talking about places there and trying to recall if we had run into each other at all during that time (niether of us seemed to think so).
Weird huh??
Funny thing is that this is not the first time something like this has happened to me with someone I met online. My friend Jaime and I, who had known each other for almost 3 years at this point, were talking one night and found out that not only did we both live in the same place at the same time but we lived within a couple of blocks of each other and even took the same bus to school (she was in Jr.High and I was in HS so she got off before me).
Has anyone else had something like this continue to happen to them in their life?
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Silly Sex Related Skills that you are proud of....
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Posted:Oct 6, 2014 11:52 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2014 3:24 pm
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What silly Sex related skill are you overly proud of?? Not talking about BJ's or anything like that, but something out of the ordinary or seemingly mundane.
I am very proud of my bra removal skills. I have gotten the bra off of a woman with 44DDD's using one hand in about 3-4 seconds.
Tell me about your proud skills. 
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My desire right now
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Posted:Oct 2, 2014 12:18 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2014 1:17 pm
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Right now, I really have this strong desire to make out with a woman, lots of kissing and touching and then having her lay back and relax while I pleasure her with my hands and my mouth. Rubbing her all up and down her body, kissing and nibbling my way around her chest and nipples, slowly making my way down to her newly wet pussy and then focusing on that with all that I have until she cannot stand it any more and cums all over my face, making my face wet with her pussy juice. After she has come down from that, I would then massage her all over until she was ready to just drift off to sleep.
If anyone out there would like to have this done to them, let me know.
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If there is one thing I have learned about woman.....
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Posted:Sep 24, 2014 9:43 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2014 6:29 am
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As guys, we have a tendancy to try and fix things that we perceive to be bad or broken, it is in our nature, but when it comes to commuincating with women, this natural instinct can get us into trouble. Here is a great little piece of advice I picked up a long time ago when it comes to communicating with women.
When a woman comes to you with a problem, issue or anything that may be going on in her life that is affecting her negatively, do this:
LISTEN to her and just let her vent about it.
Do not offer commentary (unless it is to acknowledge that, yes, what ever is going on really does suck) and under no circumstances, try to fix it or offer advice on how to fix it unless she asks you.
Most of the time, when a woman comes to you with this kind of thing, they are looking for 2 things:
1.) someone to vent to about the issue
2.) validation, that the issue does indeed suck and it is not just them overreacting
Once they have those things, if they ask for adivce on it then you can speak or not speak as you deem fit.
What do you think ladies? Am I right about this?
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Guys, guys, guys.....stop being pricks to the ladies, sheesh
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Posted:Sep 4, 2014 6:38 am
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2014 7:28 am
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Inevitably on sites like this, there are guys that think that because a woman is on here, that she no longer deserves to be treated as such and can be treated like crap, especially if they do not do something that the guy wants. It is a common mindset unfortunately that comes along with any site, place or business that deals with Sex or Adult themes. People come to to those places for a fantasy (especially guys) and when they do not get it, they lash out.
I have known women that worked in the Adult industry for many years now, most were exotic dancers (you will never guess how I met them, it was through a totally not sex-related thing..lol) and a couple were women who had their own online sites (one was even an actual porn star) but they all had one thing in common and that was the guys who thought that since they worked in the adult industry, they no longer deserved to be treated like people but as objects. For the dancers, this translated into guys touching them where they were not supposed to (believe it or not, there is an etiquette that is used when going to a strip club) and then getting upset when the dancer corrected their behavior. For the women with sites where they did cam shows it was guys demanding things of them and then getting upset and lashing out if they did not do it (even when it was just their standard personal cam and not a "cam show").
Just because a woman chooses to take part in an adult activity, does not mean that they forfeit any right to be treated with respect. First and foremost, they are still people and deserve to be treated as such. I don't care if a woman on here is a Porn Star, and her profile is about looking for people to have a gang-bang with, you still treat her with respect (you can be dirty/naughty and respectful at the same time).
Bottom line is guys, the ladies on here are searching for a fantasy too and unless their profile specifically states that their fantasy is to be degraded by a guy (and even then there is a way to do that respectfully) then just treat them like ladies when you contact them and don't be a demanding prick, it is the quickest way to not get what you want.
Hope this made sense to, well, anybody really. Thanks for reading.
Steve
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