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Blogs > FallonSteve1 > Eyes of a Stranger Blog

People as Sex Objects  

FallonSteve1 51M
15 posts
12/7/2014 11:31 am

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People as Sex Objects

I was told earlier that someone appreciated the fact that I did not see women as just sex objects and I appreciate them for more than that as evidenced by my desire to make sure that a woman I am with sexual has her needs and wants met as best as I can.

While I agree that people should never be thought of as JUST sex objects it does not mean that I do not see them as such, it means that I do not only see them as such. People are never just one thing or another, they are made of alot of different parts and those come together to make them who they are.

I have seen some women who actually like being seen as a sex object by their partners, it was what turns them on or makes them feel naughty (same with guys), but a good partner will remember that they are not just that.

Does that make any sense? lol

rm_DeltaIX7325 68M
1 post
12/7/2014 12:13 pm

 My friend I think women just desire to be admired and complimented about their beauty and to see if they are attractive to men; especially men they like. It is all about show without commitment. This is why you can write to 100 women and be nice, funny, generous and wonderful online and never meet any of them in person. They simply don't have any desire to meet anyone average or even beneficial to them in most cases. There are so many complexities to human interaction now it is bewildering and always frustrating. What makes logical sense is left unaware by most women and as a result they lose so much that would be great for them and their lives. They are after something only they understand that to us makes no sense at all. I met with an escort once age 22. She desires $200.00 per hour to meet with her and ideally is looking for a doctor, dentist or some other professional to have a regular relationship with. She lives in a rat hole motel struggling to live and raise enough money to pay the daily fee. I offered her a place to live with me, free food, no bills and an allowance of $500.00 per week. She is still living in the motel because that's what she wants and hopes for a professional to ride in on a magic carpet whisking her away to great riches and a 90210 life of luxury. You and I know it's an unrealistic fantasy she has for herself. She could have had a better life with me but it wasn't substantial enough for her to leave the danger she faces everyday. Make sense? No sense. I think most men do not view women as sex objects they just normally understand that normal relationships involve intimate interaction from time to time or a regular basis as part of a normal and healthy relationship. Then again there are some guys that just meet women to achieve sex with them and leave them behind. It is a minority of men that do this but unfortunately enough for all women to feel that this is the objective of man in regard to their desire to meet with them. These bad experiences have created fear of intimacy in women now. So, both women and men lose because of fear.


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