I'm looking for a "friend with benefits". Someone to do activities with now and then - movies, hiking, dining out (we know what's for dessert, don't we?), wine tasting, etc. I also participate in alpine mountaineering (just got back from Mt. Shasta last week) and go to Burning Man every year.

My Ideal Person Someone with a dry sense of humor (like mine)and who thinks it's OK to wear a silk blouse and no bra during Winter. Oral is good, intercourse is better but they are both enhanced if there's a good mental connection. And, yes, I use Viagra (so what's the problem with a 4 hour erection?)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, On the hood of a car

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. It's a waste of mental energy.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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