Welcome intelligent women , who can still laugh at themselves. Honesty important, a sense of gratitude for life is desirable. I'm happy but seeking contentment. Would like safe sexual encounters but not scared of more serious commitment. Does it sound like I'm looking for love in all the wrong places ? Not really, as I believe a healthy libido , kinks & all are not incompatible, so if you are pure vanilla , a few peccadillos and kinks , or full on freak - all welcome.

My Ideal Person Life has shown me that often it's the unexpected that actually delights. Often the idealised fails to live up to one's (unrealistic) expectations. So no dissapointments by not having unrealistic expectations by have "ideal " woman.