Alright, let's give this a shot again. We're a happily-married couple looking to act like agers one last time (or two!). Life certainly has thrown my husband and I a few curve balls over the past few years, but we've weathered all of that, settled ourselves down again and are looking to unwind once more! We've tried this whole "lifestyle" thing a few times, in a few ways, and it's always been an adventure - even if it hasn't always worked out exactly how we thought it might, the hits have made up for the misses! Now that we're back living in the HRM with a (relatively) reliable live-in sitter, we feel like the time might be right to give it a go again. A few things about us... We're both very average people, both physically and mentally, and by that we mean we don't have crazy back-stories or lots of baggage - a little bit, but no more than the average per. We're avid music fans - I used to play drums, and my husband has a guitar - and we prefer the radio to the TV as far as background noise goes. We don't have a huge family, just one adorable - arranging a night away from home usually isn't TOO difficult for us. My husband has a few nerdy hobbies but I promise you, ladies, it isn't a deal-breaker! One thing that needs to be stated - due to tell nature of our live-in sitter, we can basically never host again. Which is sad, but just how it is for us! Well, that's us. Sort of. How much can you really say in a blurb like this? If you want to know more, just drop us a line!

My Ideal Person We are looking for a down-to-earth couple, with a bi (or bi-curious) female or single female. "Friends with benefits" is exactly what we're looking for - we like the idea of getting to know people but neither one of us is looking for an escape plan from the marriage, or a long-term boyfriend/girlfriend on the side thing. Been there, tried that - we don't think it's for us. We would prefer a couple around the same age, though that isn't automatically a deal-breaker.

Lately, we find ourselves increasingly intrigued by the idea of the "big group thing". We've done the full swap, both together and seperate, and getting together with a whole crew of crazy like-minded folks seems like it might be a fun thing to try. The more the merrier, as they say...?

I, as mentioned, am looking for some gal-on-gal action. It's a driving theme. It's probably fair to say I'm a lot less vanilla than my husband is - anything once, twice if it's good, type of thing. I might vaguely be interested in having it just a touch rougher than he usually provides it, too, though that has to be carefully negotiated. Hell I might even be up for discussing a two-on-one - all in good time, of course. What kind of girl do you think I am?

Now, if my husband could pick & choose what he'd like to get out of this, it'd be a lady who, well, wasn't white. May seem odd, but all he's ever known are white women, and well, there's a whole lot of different people out there! Now, that said, of course, any and all ladies are welcome! He's definitely a breast man.

Another slightly odd thing he has on the brain is paying for it.. Not with an actual *ahem* lady of the night, of course, but it IS a fantasy. Strange but true. Any kind of role-play in that regard is cool. Maybe even a stripper... Hmm...

We definitely want to meet and chat before anything happens. We almost never kiss on the first date, so to speak - hubby's rules. We certainly, though, will do more than kiss on the second date... if you catch our drift! Hope to hear from you!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dirty sleazy cock-rock, and folkie celtic stuff.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
For me it is Batista from WWE (he's a pro wrestler, haha)
or Drew Barrimore, or Angelina Jolie. My husband is rather
partial to Halle Berry.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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