I am seeking bi/str8 masculine men for NSA play and/or friendship. I am easy going and friendly. I have a life-partner and we are in an open relationship. We play together and we play separately. I am orally focused. I enjoy giving head and am told that I am excellent at it. He is a power bottom and loves a good pounding. I also like to bottom. I do not top. We both are on Prep and get checked every 3 months. We do our best to be very discreet and expect the same from our sexual partners. I also like to give massages with a very happy ending. I am retired and am available most of the time so please hit me up when you are horny! I promise you will enjoy my oral skills.

My Ideal Person I am into manly masculine men. Masculinity is an aphrodisiac for me. I also like big and burly type guys but please don't let that keep you from approaching me. It really comes down to chemistry and you never know who you might click with. If we don't click, then we don't click and that is perfectly okay.

Here are things that I don't like:
1. Flakes, i.e., guys who chat you up, tell you they are coming over, get your address and then don't show up. Do this to me and I will block you on here. It is extremely disrespectful.
2. Uncleanliness and bad hygiene. Take a shower and clean yourself up for God's sake.
3. Misrepresentation of yourself in any form. Own who you are and do not try to hide it. If your picture is over a year old take a new one. Every cell phone has a camera.
4. Bigots and racists. I will be upfront with you. I for some reason have never been sexually attracted to people of African or Asian descent. However, I am also not attracted to women and yet I still love and respect them very much. And the same goes for people of African or Asian descent. I love all human beings and try to respect everyone.
5. Political or religious extremism. I believe in and support everyone's right to their own personal beliefs. Don't push yours on me and I won't push mine on you. I try hard to RESPECT and LOVE all humanity.
6. Drama and negativity. Can't stand it on TV and won't tolerate it in my life.
7. Pictures of your butt hole. These are a complete turn off for me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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