Don't judge someone that you have not talked to nor by what a breif description says. People are more complex than just by what a few words can describe. Take the time to chat with someone before you judge them or place labels. If you are worried about someones history/past then WHY are you on this site? Everyone has one. We all worry about the unknown, so protect yourself. We sometime may not know what we want but we may know what we don't want...the fun is finding out what we do like...