What are you here for?
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Posted:May 8, 2018 9:41 pm
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I think that there are many of us that are here for very many reason, some that we put in our profile and other we share with those that we find common ground with and chemistry with.
The question is why are you here? What are your limits? And how are you picking those that you desire to play with? Listen, many of us sent many email in good faith and desires to enjoy the company of others to the fullest. Playing by the rules that we come up with together And often we get no reply. Is it because we are not their cup of tea? CityHookups.com system of communicating sucks ass? Those that we are trying to contact have more than their share of e-mails that they just can't get to them all ( We should all be that lucky)? Or Because, there are more people on the site that think that they want what they place in their profile, until it starts to get real?
When I email a person, I read the profile, look at the pictures , and most of all try to read between the lines and see if what I am reading and seeing is what they would like me to see? I made a rule with myself when I came into this style......And that is that I would not play with or contact anyone that I would not call a "Friend". You see life is way to short to not live it to the fullest. I enjoy sex and those that enjoy sex as much as much as I do. And there is nothing wrong with that. So, again "What are you here for?
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Keep you Profile real.........
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Posted:Nov 14, 2016 11:44 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2018 11:48 pm
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I think that is time that somone came out and said something about those that lie in thier profile about the things that there is no reason to lie about. After all you can't be everything to everyone. And there is someone out there that is going to like you for being you. We all bring something to the table that someone else may or maynot enjoy. Keep your profile real. State your likes, dislikes, desires, and fantaties and go from there. Everyone has their limits, their do's and don'ts and wills and wont. Respect those limits and don't be the one that poses your desires on others that may not be feeling the message that you are bring. There are way too many people on here for that. There is someone that is going to like what you are serving. Trust me!
Ladies, No your worth and where you are willing to go and understand that if you are looking for love here, there is a slim chance that you will find it. But, what you should be able to find is respect and understanding. The understanding that you are no less than the beatiful woman that you are and you are seeking the same things that men have for years. There is nothing wrong with being here and seeking sex on a level that you have only dreamed of. We are all here to experince the next level of sex and sharing that feeling with others.
Men, we have to respect and understand that there are times when a woman wants more that what they are asking for. Thus, we should try to meet them half way. If you find a lady that likes to fuck and fuck often and long. Treat her like the lady that is is before, during, and after everything is said and done ( unless during she would like you to do otherwise...LO . I think that more commuication and less assuming will help all of us enjoy one another just that much more.
People if you are not interested in a person that is hitting you up on IM or in email, let them know. Say "Thank you for your interest. But, I dont't think that we are a match." If they continue to IM and email lay out your reasons for not feeling them and than move on. There is no need to be rude or get upset. After all it is really hard to gage a person in a e-mail or a IM. Oh yeah! And people .....Please, be safe and don't put yourself in a position where you feel that something is not right. There are a lot of crazy people out there. And they only want what they want and when they want it .....and the hell with you.
So, in closing I would like to say just keep it real, Have fun, and most of all respect one another. After all life is way to short to do otherwise! 
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Who knows you're on CityHookups.com ???
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Posted:Sep 14, 2015 1:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2015 1:10 pm
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As I look around the site and corespond with people by email here on CityHookups.com or the chat feature. I have to wonder...... Is this site something you really should hide from others or share with others in your real life right now? What I mean is that when you look at it this site is just like the real world we live in... Same people, with the same kinks, unable to express there real desires for fear of someone judging them. In this day and age where men are allowed to marry men and women able to do the same. At what point does threesome, gang bangs, FWB, and the other things we enjoy stop being something that someone can hold against you and label you a freak ( which is a badge of honor for me...lol). When do we allow sexual desires to be what they are, a part of the growth of a person's sexual and mentally. If the site was to be hacked right now, would you be ashamed of your name appear of the list as a member? This is my question to you. Let me know what you think.......
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The Single Male..........
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Posted:Dec 16, 2013 6:32 pm
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2015 1:53 pm
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There is this view of the single male to be this "horny" male looking for easy pussy. Doing and saying what it takes to hook up with single females and couples. But, that is not always the case. Sure, there are guys out there that will send you a two word e-mail, like ....."Wanna Fuck?" or something like that. And even though there are many of guys out there that do that, there are a few of us that enjoy meeting people on this site for other reasons.
Some of those reason why we as single guys join sites such as CityHookups.com, could be and not limited too the fact that we are busy men and don't the bar and club thing. Work and other issues could prevent that from being a good way of meeting people that you might have things in common with. Yes, Sex is one of those things that we look for in a person that we might want to meet. Like Couples and Single ladies on CityHookups.com, we enjoy sex too. And hope to meet a person that enjoys it as much as we do. There is nothing wrong with it, life is way to short to not live your life to the fullest and enjoy as much of those things that you desires. Such, when on a site like this you will get those three word e-mails and even some that are hard to read (Come on guys the do have spell check). But, then you get an e-mail from someone that read your profile and not just looked at the pictures. Someone that feels that they have a lot in common with you and could bring pleasure to your play time. A gentlemen that is respectful, down to earth and real.
I guess it is true when they say that "You have to kiss a lot of frogs....." But, trust and believe there are Good Single males on CityHookups.com that understand their place and are ready to join couples or take care of those sex single women with no drama or bullshit. Just make sure that your profile expresses your desire, limits, and the do's and don'ts. Please, don't give up on finding a quality single male. They are out there and waiting to hear from you.
These are just my thought and I wanted to share them with you. Hope it makes you think!
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CityHookups.com Compatibility Chart??????
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Posted:Dec 9, 2013 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2015 2:49 am
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While looking at profiles on CityHookups.com, I often look at the "Compatibility Chart" to decide if someone is a match for me or if we are looking for the same things. But, I don't allow it to decide one way or another. It is just one of the "tools" that I use. I read the profile, look at the type of friends they befriended, and their answers to the questions on their profile. This gives me a little more information about the person and what they are hoping to find on CityHookups.com.
My question to all of you .....What is it that you look at to determine that that person is someone that you might be a match for? Or what in a profile determines if you will e-mail that person, flirt, with them or send then a friends request? Do you think that the information in most profiles is something that best presents the desires of the person or just what they think that you want to hear? Let talk about this and see how and why people pick the people?
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30 Things you should stop doing to yourself.
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Posted:Dec 4, 2013 5:42 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2015 2:49 am
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Here are some ideas to get you started:
1.Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2.Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled.
4.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
6.Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
7.Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
8.Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
9.Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness.
11.Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
12.Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13.Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15.Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16.Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17.Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
18.Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.
19.Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20.Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right.
21.Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22.Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23.Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done. Read Getting Things Done.
24.Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25.Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
26.Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
27.Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28.Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29.Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30.Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.
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Great Game for your Nake Adult get together.......Naked Twister
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Posted:Nov 27, 2013 2:08 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2015 2:52 am
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I saw a blog that asked "What is your favorite Naked Game to play?" People replied with strip poker, Quarters, Truth or Dare. But, My favorite Naked game is "Strip Twister". Below is how it is played....:
1.Instructions below are for two couples, but can be expanded to include up to four couples, with up to four players on the mat at once. Of course, it can also be played between just two consenting adults.
2.All players should be wearing an equal number of articles to remove, but no shoes should be worn. Six to eight articles is usually a good number.
3.Determine a few rules at the beginning. For example; once a player has lost all articles of clothing, what is the penalty for a failure? Suggested penalties are doing a shot, taking a drink, or performing a dare. The winner of a particular move would have the choice of either of the three, but not until the loser of the move has lost all clothing articles. Also determine what items are considered removable, ie: does jewelry or headbands count, etc?
4.Start with the Twister Game on the floor.
5.Break into teams of two people of the same sex.
6.One player from each team begins the game as a normal game of Twister.
7.The teammate who is not on the mat will spin for her partner.
8.Play moves until one of the players fails to achieve the designated spot.
9.When a failure occurs, the player who failed is to lose one article of clothing. The choice of that article is made by the opposing player on the mat. This gives the winning player a moment to rest and to take a drink, etc.
10.The winning player then resumes his position.
11.The player who lost an article of clothing steps aside and allows her partner to assume the losing players’ previous position.
12.The partner of the winning player spins for the winning player to make his next move.
13.Play continues in this manner until there is only one player with an article remaining. This player is considered the winner of round one.
14.Players who continue without clothes through the round may take a drink, do a shot, or do a dare as determined prior to the start of the game.
15.Additional rounds may be played, with drinks or dares being substituted for removal of clothing. The opponent on the mat with the failed player would be the one to determine a dare for the loser of the move to do.
Here you go! Enjoy yourself and friends to the fullest. Make for a great Christmas gift.
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Five Online Etiquette Tips
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Posted:Nov 27, 2013 12:48 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 3:22 pm
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Five Online Etiquette Tips
When attending school online takes classroom correspondence to a whole new level. It’s important to follow the guidelines of proper online etiquette to ensure good communication between you, your classmates and your teachers. The same guidelines should be used when communicating with people online or on a Site like this one. You are trying to make a connection, convey thoughts and ideas, in hopes to get what it is you desire. Take the time to look over these five simple Etiquette tips that just might help you better make those connections.
Respect. Whether the class is online or on-site, respect is essential. It allows all involved parties to focus on the objective and prevents distracting disagreements. Be sure to use a polite tone, read before responding and be constructive with your criticism. It’s important to treat all online interactions the same as face-to-face interactions.
Use Proper Formatting, Punctuation and Grammar. Though online communication is still new, the same rules of English apply in a classroom setting as well as on a site like CityHookups.com. Capitalize letters when necessary, use appropriate punctuation and avoid using slang and abbreviations. You’ll not only make your posts easier to read; you’ll demonstrate your professionalism and personal value.
Be Honest. Because tone is difficult to convey online, sarcasm or humor can easily be misinterpreted. Though you may be tempted to joke around with your classmates, something written for a laugh may offend others. If you are unsure whether your message will be misconstrued, consider using an emoticon to lighten the tone.
If you have a disagreement or issue with a fellow classmate or person online, you can report it to those running the site or simply agree to disagree and move on. Most people online stick to their guns when it comes to the position that they take.
Stay on Topic, and Keep it Brief. Online classes and site like CityHookups.com require a lot of reading, and when responding, it may be difficult to decide where to start. Focus your comments into short topics to keep the conversation flowing. Avoid being too wordy, and instead say what you need to say without veering off topic.
Although using a more formal tone online might seem unusual at first, by keeping your online conversations respectful and direct, you’ll clear the way for easy communication.
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ANAL SEX......PROS & CONS...
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Posted:Nov 24, 2013 8:05 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 3:22 pm
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ANAL SEX......PROS & CONS...
I was reading and online article by Rachel Khona, in which she states Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a "naughty girl." And that anal sex is one of those things that falls into that fantasy. She goes on to say that, "Anal sex isn’t just for the sexually daring anymore. It’s becoming more and more common in bedrooms around the world, but don’t let that fool you. Backdoor play is a different beast altogether". She addresses the Pros & Cons of anal sex in away that I thought I would share with you all.
It appears that anal sex is something that woman either love it or hate it. There is no real in between when it comes down to it. Most women have tried it at some point, resulting in one of two feelings: pain or pleasure. Often times those that are trying it for the first time don't really prepare themselves for the experience. Trust me, It is something that you might want to prepare for to ensure pleasure all the way around (But, I think that is going to be another post). Preparation appears to be the key to an enjoyable moment. But, Ms. Khona listed the Pros & Cons of anal sex. Here are a few of her tops pros & cons:
THE PROS
It can feel good
Women enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. It's a totally different sensation than regular sex. It's not her vagina, yet it's inside her. In other words, it’s a completely alien feeling that she isn’t used to, which makes it intriguing. Meanwhile, the rectum will just suck up your penis like a vacuum. Play with her clitoris too and you’ll really send her into the stratosphere. In fact, it’s even possible for women to have orgasms from anal sex.
Because anal sex is naughty
Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a “naughty girl.” There’s a reason people love school girl uniforms and handcuffs: It’s forbidden and, therefore, all the more delicious and tempting. Anal sex is something you can do in secret and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your girl — which is part of the fun. Plus, there’s the bonding experience of doing something together for the first time, even if it’s just a first for one of you.
THE CONS
It’s painful
Anal sex can hurt like a mofo. The rectum is not built to have things go in; only out. The vagina stretches to let in a penis and give birth, but a rectum does not. Thus you can cause searing pain if you don't prepare her properly. That means a) asking her first (duh) b) using lube and c) going very slowly and not pounding into her like a jackrabbit.
It's a mess
Women put so much emphasis on making themselves look pretty and sweet-smelling for their men, so the merest glimmer of a possibility that you might see her explode all over herself is obviously devastating to her. No longer will you see her as a beautiful, desirable woman; you'll forever be picturing her covered in feces. It's not exactly the look she's going for.
For this reason she might decide to avoid anal sex altogether. But if she takes an anal douche ahead of time (or even just a thorough wash-up in the shower) and makes sure her bowels have been emptied an hour before, she’s almost certain to avoid any messy accidents.
So, with that said...here are a few THINGS TO REMEMBER
Lube is your friend......
Unlike the vagina, the rectum does not produce its own lubricant. Penetration without ample lube equals dry friction. Not so pleasurable. Use a silicone-based product and not petroleum jelly, which will just clog up the walls of your rectum.
Don’t forget about foreplay......
It’s may important to turn her on before you even think about going near her back door. When she’s feeling hot and bothered, her body will be much more receptive to anal. In other words, you need to make her ache for it, not just kind of want it. This way when you start touching her closer to her anus, she’ll be more likely to respond with a heated moan than a yelp of pain. Tease her without even putting anything in her. Kiss and rub her body all over. Make her feel relaxed and adored. The art of tease and anticipation is one of the best tools you have in your sexual toolbox.
Keep it clean........
Both of you are equally susceptible to disease with anal sex as you are with vaginal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable, so safe sex is imperative. Not only will condoms protect you against any stray fecal matter, but it will prevent her from having an ass full of semen. Semen can mix with the contents of her rectum and can make her sick. Use a condom and avoid the hassle.
Practice makes perfect, and anal sex is no different. Do it the right way, and she’ll be more open to doing it again. Screw it up, and you can kiss anal sex goodbye. At least until she forgets how bad it was last time, or you can convince her you’ve learned all these new skills.
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Does your Profile really reflect your desires?????
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Posted:Nov 23, 2013 1:11 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 3:22 pm
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Here On CityHookups.com there are a lot of questions to answer and others things to help you better reflect your desire and better match you with people that you have a good chance of having much in common with. But, does it really do that? I believe that with experience your desires change. Thus, many change their desires and those changes are not reflected in their profile anymore. Couples are no longer couples, Women that are no longer into men and looking to explore other women. How many people really update their profiles to show where they are now?
I have enjoyed talking too and meeting some very interesting people on CityHookups.com? But, it was only until reading everything that there is to read in their profile and emailing them and getting to know them, I've learned that they have new interest and have not updated their profile to show their new interest. How many profiles have you come across that when you contacted the person was not what it was presented as? I would like to hear your comments and views on this subject!
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When did you learn how to Masturbate?
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Posted:Oct 30, 2013 4:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2014 9:52 pm
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Studies have found that masturbation is frequent in humans of both sexes and all ages, although there is variation. Various medical and psychological benefits have been attributed to a healthy attitude to sex in general and to masturbation in particular. No causal relationship is known between masturbation and any form of mental or physical disorder.
Masturbation has been depicted in art since prehistoric times and is mentioned and discussed in very early writings. In the 18th and 19th centuries, some European theologians and physicians described it as "heinous", "deplorable" and "hideous", but during the 20th century, these taboos generally declined. There has been an increase in discussion and portrayal of masturbation in art, popular music, television, films and literature. Present day religions vary in their views of masturbation; some view it as a spiritually detrimental practice, some see it as not spiritually detrimental, and others take a situational view. The legal status of masturbation has also varied through history and masturbation in public is illegal in most countries. In the West, masturbation in private or with a partner is generally considered a healthy and normal part of sexual enjoyment, as various health authorities have expressed in leaflets and in their policies. Animal masturbation has been observed in many species, both in the wild and in captivity
So, my question is when did you start pleasuring yourself and how did you learn to do it. I think that many of would have to think long and hard to remember, back to the first day that you discovered this wonderful way of pleasing yourself. At one point in your youth it could have been a large part of what you thought about morning, noon, and night. Is this one of nature's ways of introducing us to sex and the fact that we are sexual beings? Is it masturbation health and when is it not? Like many things even masturbation can be detrimental to your health.
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