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I Matter, You Matter, We All Matter
I Matter, You Matter, We All Matter I promise I will get myself on track better. You will notice that the blog I wrote yesterday is down. I had second thoughts on no longer being . I do not think that is something I am ready to give up on. Let me explain more of what has been going on with me. As we age, we all or most of us have certain medical challenges. Sometime we do better with them, sometimes we do not. Lately my fibromyalgia has sent me almost crawling out of bed on a good day. And with that flair came the gouty arthritis in my toes. And other assorted things that have caused me to need to slow down. I also found myself involved with a fwb the only one I have, that really wasnt a good fit for me. Very uncaring, narcissist, and he was not careful with me even when I told him what was going on. He was too rough, causing me to bleed quite a bit. Along with that the severe arthritis in my shoulders was bad after he yanked hard on my right arm. I can still be , I just think I haven't met the right person. I that person to have some emotion display when we are together. I do not wish to be treated like a piece that doesn't matter. I us to be kind, and loving lovers. treasuring the time we spend together and then we go back to our normal lives. Stolen moments on or Im, s savoring it all. I can't let this bad experience turn me into a sexually repressed woman, and I wont. Add *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me* |
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Well said! Someone who makes you bleed is not good.
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YaY! Very good for you. I have had the experience of being with the wrong person and trying to make it work. Not worth it . Good to find the better one as you are doing. Best wishes.
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I am glad you're staying. It can be super difficult to find someone whose into the things you are as well as cares. Please don't give up hope. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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The problem I see at times is that movies, porn, and even some members here glorify "rough sex". Heck there is even a song that, sung by a female, that states "when it comes to love, if it isn't rough it isn't good." But, honestly, my experience is while both men and women do like some energy put into sex, no one really likes to be rough handled. One needs to simply listen and observe the reactions of their partner to see what they really enjoy.
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I could do circus sex in my 20s and 30s. Not now. Dont want to. Sensuous sex is the best anyway. Hold out for what you want. The porn industry ruins it for normal people. Plus porn sex is fake anyway.
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you can find better let them know you have to go slow and easy you do Matter and they should respect you. i would xoxoxoxoxox
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Well said! Someone who makes you bleed is not good. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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YaY! Very good for you. I have had the experience of being with the wrong person and trying to make it work. Not worth it . Good to find the better one as you are doing. Best wishes. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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I am glad you're staying. It can be super difficult to find someone whose into the things you are as well as cares. Please don't give up hope. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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The problem I see at times is that movies, porn, and even some members here glorify "rough sex". Heck there is even a song that, sung by a female, that states "when it comes to love, if it isn't rough it isn't good." But, honestly, my experience is while both men and women do like some energy put into sex, no one really likes to be rough handled. One needs to simply listen and observe the reactions of their partner to see what they really enjoy. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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Thank you and Merry Christmas *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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I could do circus sex in my 20s and 30s. Not now. Dont want to. Sensuous sex is the best anyway. Hold out for what you want. The porn industry ruins it for normal people. Plus porn sex is fake anyway. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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you can find better let them know you have to go slow and easy you do Matter and they should respect you. i would xoxoxoxoxox *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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Even a casual partner should care. Staying with one who does not only makes you feel crappy. Do not give up hope. Someone good for you can turn up even when you are not actively looking but one does need to open to seeing possibilities. Wishing you the best of luck finding that nearby friend and lover. Hugs If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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