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10/14/2019 10:19 pm |
Since I seem to be in every woman's friendzone, the best you can do is tell him that you think he is a great guy but you don't think that you want to be anything but friends. If he takes it poorly . . .well he was never much of a real friend anyway and you don't lose much. I am just wondering how you are sure that he thinks there is something there worth pursuing when you made it clear that you only think of him as a friend. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Sadly some men not take in a serious way the romance... If you are trying but he is not ready... it is his problem.
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Your strategy should reflect how close to crossing out of the Friendzone you made it before the meet-up. In your time together face-to-face did you feel pressure to become intimate? If not, then you probably communicated your reticence to take things any further and your friend likely picked-up on it. You are free to go forward just as you have for the past 5 years. I assume you have determined that this guy is in control of his emotions, so it's even possible to continue meeting and stay platonic. Some guys are like that....really. If you were required to cock-block him (even politely) you have also communicated that intimacy is a "no-fly" zone for him. Unfortunately he may feel that he still has some *traction*. Presumably he sent you a follow-up note expressing his delight and appreciation for the time you spent together. If so, you should respond in kind and thank him for understanding that he didn't stir you physically. Absent follow-up from him, then no need for you to reach out. If he's sulking, keep him at arm's length and starting winding down your contacts with him.
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if you BOTH have mutually taken respective turns to friendzone each other, then just make it one of times where it's your turn. let him know it was nice to finally meet and all that; you appreciate him taking the time. you wanna be friends even after meeting?? ask him. say i'd like for us to continue as friends. see what his response is. the guy is either going to agree or not. if he agrees, fine. if not tell him that things seemed to go long with the back n' forth between you to that you believe it best to just remain friends. 5 years is a long stretch and you don't want to take a risk and have things get messy between the two of you. if you believe that, don't waver when you say it. don't try and speak for him but make sure you clearly speak for you.
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10/15/2019 2:53 am |
why is it that adults have so much trouble doing adult things? honest and straightforward would be the best way. there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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No chemistry, huh? If he isn't on CityHookups.com it might be because he is happy just to have just met you and doesn't care to meet any others. Sounds like you got the vibe he is attracted to you and that he is ready for you but you aren't attracted to him. By using permanently, it means you gave him a chance and it's over. If he's ready and you aren't, be honest, don't string him along. There might be another hot woman who wants him but his attention is in your direction because of his feelings for you. I'd stay away from telling him you are 'not ready' if you permanently feel that way. Not ready would signal for him you want him... Anyway, good luck to both of ya
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10/16/2019 11:18 am |
like ripping a band aid off.....just do it.....honest a clear with no chance of being misunderstood.....its respectful
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Thats really difficult as you both have hot and cold spots with each other. Honestly, ask yourself where you want your relationship with him to go. Is it casual? Serious? He the one? If its something serious in your heart I'd say make your feelings known and also to provide an ultimatum of sorts. I think its unfair to each other if you keep dangling the "what could haves" to one another. communication is key and make sure you utilize it
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