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rm_1realdarlin 54F
372 posts
6/27/2007 7:47 am

Last Read:
12/21/2007 9:14 am

Changes


I was recently told by one of the first people i met on here (2004) that i have changed a bit. My question was, how so? Im not as open as i once was a lil less forgiving he said. That could possibly be true i spose. I couldnt tell you how many men, women and couples i have met in that time, not a clue! Hundreds i am sure. I can tell you exactly how many men i have slept with and women as well lol. So anyway back to what he said and what i think about it. Less open, well you can only try to get to know so many people and never talk to em again only so much. I dont share "me" as easily as i once did. Yanno the "me" i speak of, the person one truly is on the inside that only a few really and truly know. There are alot of people that know the me i let them see. I have heard many stories about me that i never knew lol. Those stories from the people that never got to know "me" but the me i wanted em to see.
As far as less forgiving goes, well lets see. If its someone that doesnt know me and say we have agreed to meet and they dont show, who gives a shit why forgive just forget. I have given second chances and even a couple third chances, no more and im sure he has heard me more than a time or two bitch about it. So i spose hes right, but dont tell him that hes such an arrogant ass , lol ya know hes gonna read this!!!

My thought on me changing would be this. I know i have opened up and saw way more than i ever would have not being on this site. I have made a few friends, had some great mind blowing sex and some sex thats plain forgettable, or i hope to forget someday . Still searching for my frog but until i find him ill just kiss away and have some fun. For those that think they know me think again and those that truly know me, lucky lucky you !!

rm_Calcan61 62M

6/28/2007 7:05 pm

A person really never changes they learn and grow. Aperson has to be open and open more and more as friendship developes to learn truely about one another.
Hope you find your prince.


rm_dallaslee67 56M

8/29/2007 2:02 pm

As for being less forgiving, I don't think that's true. You've declined my attempts to talk to you for some time now because I'm married. I finally emailed you again and said that I just wanted to talk and get to know you. Ya know what, the forgiving person in you accepted me and I hope to get to be friends with you. Who knows, maybe I'll get to know the REAL you and not necessarily the "1real..." you.

Later

Lee


handsumjason 62M
2 posts
9/4/2007 3:20 pm

What part of "not into that" do you not understand ? Change is hard to do but I have seen people change, because of events ..divorce,drugs, gambling, death.$$$$...why... even married men finally really become married...LOL


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
10/21/2007 2:37 am

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much thank.


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
10/21/2007 2:38 am

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Circle of friends.
Because of network congestion
unfortunately, I cannot.
Many thanks.


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11894 posts
10/21/2007 2:38 am

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11894 posts
10/21/2007 2:39 am

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11894 posts
10/21/2007 2:39 am

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11894 posts
10/21/2007 2:40 am

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allforrealhere 47M/51F

12/21/2007 12:42 am

the real answer to change or no change is all about time. time is the only thing not so much friends unless you let them influence you but time its self how you think and act will change over TIME. It is a fact of life ask any 16 year old or 21 year old if they are mature and normally they will say yes ask them again when they are 30 35 to look back on it and reevaluate it and they would say no but I sure they would say they are mature now. and this would go on again and again as long as you asked it we grow and that takes TIME.


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