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You know what really grinds my gears?  

BMW19854 38M  
9 posts
10/9/2018 1:19 pm
You know what really grinds my gears?

I can't be the only one who gets annoyed by those who either express interest or want to make plans with you, and then they all of a sudden ghost you with so much as an explanation or response. It's like, come on, some of us here actually want to meet other people in person and see where things go. The very least you could do is offer some sort of a response instead of just disappearing etc.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/10/2018 1:51 am

How many days do you waste before you invite her to come meet you?


BMW19854 replies on 10/10/2018 3:40 am:
Like 3 to 4 days it seems

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/10/2018 3:01 pm

BMW19854 replies on 10/10/2018 3:40 am:
Like 3 to 4 days it seems


That's the problem. That's your mistake.

You have too much competition to get with that one woman, especially if she is only halfway decent looking. The longer you let her keep you online, the more messages she is getting from other men.

When you make first contact, on that very first day is when you should be inviting her to meet you somewhere. It's not a date, it's a kind of mutual interview, and the meeting shouldn't really have to take more than 10 to 30 minutes.

I know.. you've heard, or read, that women "Want to get to know you before they meet you"...... That's nonsense.

So when you get a woman, you like, messaging you, tell her a time and place to meet .....don't ever waste 3 to 4 days again.


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