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You took her where on the first date?
 

yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
12/6/2018 8:04 pm

 This sounds like the plot of a romantic comedy. Who could play the parts? Ryan Reynolds and Sandra Bullock? Or are they too old? Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawrence? They are a safe bet...box office gold actually.

I am not remembering any strange first dates but just strange ways to meet. I have been lucky I realize in not running into any serious nutjobs. There was one guy who was enormous!!! He had a cute profile pic on a normal dating website and we had flirted for a while. He did list his height as 6'8" but I thought it was a typo. Nope. He looked like a bear. But a cuddly one. He was quite the pot head actually and we were fooling around and he could not perform. He was probably 10-15 years younger than me too. I was not interested in a second meet. But he kept messaging me. Although he did not give the vibe off of being a stalker nutjob I had a little paranoia about it so I mentioned that my brother and uncle would be visiting me over the next few weeks. It actually was not a lie as my brother was visiting every other weekend from Maine. The huge dude finally stopped messaging me after a few months. I swear his photo was so freaking babylike cute and the magnitude of the guy was just startling.
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Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/7/2018 5:07 am
    Quoting  :
I was wondering if anyone was gonna post something like that. I've met women at weddings, but never a funeral. haha
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/7/2018 5:08 am
    Quoting  :
LOL...and let me guess. He had straight listed on his profile.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/7/2018 5:10 am
    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    Since I was previously active on a "phone chat system" before joining this site, I've had my share of Bad First Dates, courtesy of both methods - but all of mine, added up, don't come close to accompanying someone to a funeral.

    Thank you for this story. The ONLY thing that could have made it better was if YOU were the person being asked out on the date.

    Just a minute, I wouldn't want to wish that on a friend. Just consider that previous paragraph Deleted.
LOL..right!! I'm sure, that kind of surprise date, wouldn't have went over well. It's not necessarily the funeral part...it's the just be honest and ask me.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/7/2018 5:13 am
    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    This sounds like the plot of a romantic comedy. Who could play the parts? Ryan Reynolds and Sandra Bullock? Or are they too old? Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawrence? They are a safe bet...box office gold actually.

    I am not remembering any strange first dates but just strange ways to meet. I have been lucky I realize in not running into any serious nutjobs. There was one guy who was enormous!!! He had a cute profile pic on a normal dating website and we had flirted for a while. He did list his height as 6'8" but I thought it was a typo. Nope. He looked like a bear. But a cuddly one. He was quite the pot head actually and we were fooling around and he could not perform. He was probably 10-15 years younger than me too. I was not interested in a second meet. But he kept messaging me. Although he did not give the vibe off of being a stalker nutjob I had a little paranoia about it so I mentioned that my brother and uncle would be visiting me over the next few weeks. It actually was not a lie as my brother was visiting every other weekend from Maine. The huge dude finally stopped messaging me after a few months. I swear his photo was so freaking babylike cute and the magnitude of the guy was just startling.
Haha...what could you call the movie..Blind Date in Black...

At least he got the hint and stopped. Nothing worse than a stalker. haha.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
12/7/2018 4:23 pm
    Quoting Platosgames:
    I agree with your first sentence completely. I always insist the first date is a "'both" drive kind of meet. Public. Mainly to put her at ease. But I think that's how all women should handle it. You never know when that nice guy online is gonna become your worst nightmare.

    Besides that one I described, I've never been on a date where we didn't recognize each other from our pics.
Or nice woman....from what I’ve heard there are some scary women out there!!
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/7/2018 6:02 pm
    Quoting tresennui:
    Or nice woman....from what I’ve heard there are some scary women out there!!
That's true..I have had a stalker or two...no fun.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/9/2018 11:49 am
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LOLOLOL. And the winner of the best response goes to you!!!!!!

That is just the craziest, funniest thing I've ever heard. LOL. What the hell was this guy thinking? Oh wait...thinking might not have been his strong point , obviously.

Thanks for sharing that.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


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