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When words hurt  

Hotinlace 57F
13 posts
1/8/2020 1:30 pm
When words hurt

I had made the choice not pursue anyone. I do want find someone however. I'm a nice person and even though someone may not be appealing and they send a message, I try be nice and tell them no. But some are a little more persistant. And I let my guard down. I think what harm can happen if I just go ahead and see if it's what I would like. So I chat, I get know a little bit. Then like a frieght train they prove right. They are only looking for a quick fuc They say something mean and then try say it's . That I'm being irrational. When its them who cannot be kind. When you say something that hurts another, own up it and apologize. Or just don't contact .

18oklahoma 22M
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1/8/2020 3:45 pm

 I understand what your saying but don't let those guys stop you.
not everyone is like that.


Tiptoingtony 48M
11 posts
1/8/2020 4:17 pm

 That's not the way it should be . The I tenet is a horrible place and you have to be careful


Mr00Fun4U 64M

1/8/2020 7:26 pm

 It does suck when someone like you is on this site that has manners and shows friendly courtesy to be mouthed off to by morons.

You hang in there and hope you manage to find what you seek.

When words hurt


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
1/8/2020 8:36 pm

 You're not being irrational. That any "man" says that in response is only showing his true colors, and it's such a typical "macho asshat" thing to do. If anything you're being cautious. Online dating can lead to unfavorable situations...

Sadly, it's the nature of the beast in any online dating site. It happens not only to women, but to some men, from what I've been reading as well. BOTH genders of the guilty ones give ALL of the good people a bad image in the eyes of other good people.

My note to those guilty ones: ever heard of the saying "You get more bees with honey than you do with vinegar"? Hmm… maybe you ought to start paying attention.
"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
1/8/2020 8:42 pm

 There are a lot of assholes in the world. There are lots of assholes on here.
Not all men are assholes. Not all men on here are assholes.
Keep looking. Keep trying. Someone is looking for you.


drivehard16 65M  
8 posts
1/10/2020 5:02 am

 Dont let others hurt you.Alot of great guys in the world


Hippie19572 66M

5/14/2020 2:54 pm

 Sorry this has happened to you !! You look very sexy to me !


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