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Breaking the ice
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Breaking the ice We have really enjoyed going to local swingers parties and meeting great friends. But it seems like there is a stalemate when you meet couples, even single people. After you had a few drinks or whatever, when do you break the ice. Nowadays you are supposed to sense when the time to break the ice is. Yet if you take it on too early you will end up losing any chance. The couple/person might think your pushy, or the dreaded your just there to be creepy. What is the best way to break the ice in these situations? What are some techniques that you use to break the ice?  |
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I wish I knew. I have been interested in you.
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5/6/2018 5:25 pm |
Wow. Simply gorgeous
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5/6/2018 5:49 pm |
Just communicate...The other folks are probably feeling the same way....Start off nice n easy...You can always expand your interests and needs...Good Luck! 
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Try getting close, very close but not actually being direct or overt, just presenting the opportunity for a next step and just see how they react. If it is going to work, the urge/desire has to be completely mutual.
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you can find some help by studying body language ,people give off clear signs they want intimacy or sex . plenty of books about it .probably hrder with a couple , the guy may be flirting his ass off but the lady is not warm to the person , I thnk time and more familiarity with just everyday lives can help lower the wall most people have up against creepers nutjobs, clingers, theives etc..
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There isn't any one answer to that. People are all different Since guys are usually considered to be the pushy ones I usually wait for the woman to say something that shifts the conversation in that direction. Sometimes it is at the place we've met right after food or drinks and sometimes it's been hours after we've been at her place. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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5/6/2018 6:40 pm |
sexy photo good luck to ya
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1 post 5/6/2018 6:46 pm |
Yes, you are quite beautiful. True. Frank
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5/6/2018 7:02 pm |
Wish you were closer!
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As other's have said, it's a fine line, especially as a single man in the lifestyle. I genuinely like people and engage people I am interested in witty conversation. Laughing is a great ice breaker. I am not in a rush to move to the bedroom, unless I am approached. I let things progress naturally: looking for clues. Of course there are mistakes and missed opportunities but I handle all situations graciously.
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5/6/2018 7:17 pm |
Just be yourself be jovial, happy and be patient. You are an extremely attractive young woman I am sure your going to just fine. It might be a good idea to try and contemplate what causes that moment of uncomfortable silence or stalemate? If you are able to step outside of yourself and see things from the others point of view. It could be as simple as maybe they are intimidated because you are so attractive or vice versa . One thing to always remember is that almost no matter what the other is every bit as nervous or uncertain as you may be. How you are feeling in most cases is a pretty good barometer to gauge what the other is feeling. Personally I have always found there is no better way to shatter that icy moment of uncertainty where the air even feels heavy than laughter. This has always come fairly natural to me because, I happen to be one of those people that have kinda a kinda smart ass, sarcastic, goofball personality anyway so. 
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After you had a few drinks or whatever, when do you break the ice. .... The time to break the ice, is when you are sober, not drinking. Nowadays you are supposed to sense when the time to break the ice is. ...No..... "Breaking the ice", can be immediate. You see someone, you get to your point....ice broken. The thing is to be confident in your own abilities to start a rapport, even the smallest of one. The concept , "Breaking the ice" is ridiculous. We have this saying because some shy people could not figure out when to say something to a person, nor what to say to a person with whom they were attracted . Some pathetic males think he has to compliment and buy stuff [drinks, food, flowers...that kind of nonsense]. Yet if you take it on too early you will end up losing any chance. .... No... If that is that case [assumed to be too early], then they didn't want to do anything with you, anyway. There is no "Too early"... just "Not attracted to you". The couple/person might think your pushy, or the dreaded your just there to be creepy. .... No...... the couple/person is shy. You don't want to waste your time waiting for them to get comfortable and come out of their shell. Really, they should not be playing on these kinds of internet sites. These shy people can become victims very easily if they meet the wrong person, because they won't know they are being victimized until it's too late. What is the best way to break the ice in these situations? ....Get to the point. "Attraction" is instantaneous. What are some techniques that you use to break the ice? ... I don't compliment women, like some pussy's do . I get to the point of why I approached her.
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nice photo, can't say much on breaking the ice
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6/21/2018 1:02 am |
Simple just undress at the same time .
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Hot as hell
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I have always found this to be a difficalt question. Especially with couples. I mean I am straight and there to please or help please the lady do you show her all the attention? Do you chat with him a bunch so he is comfortable? Hit me up some time I am close enough to meet for drinks or if it is more just wanting to get it on we can meet at your place or mine...
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I am open and up front on my intentions and desires. Has been working for me for years.
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10/15/2018 8:50 am |
Just take a little time on formalities and then head straight to asking about the things you feel you need to know. Allowing the same courtesy to answer the questions headed to you. If it goes wrong from that stance I'm not to sure you should be worried over it.
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Sometimes being a single man can even be worse. I am interested in playing with you. "Breaking the ice" 4097178
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