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The joys of being open  

cam49013 45F  
52 posts
12/6/2017 6:22 pm
The joys of being open


I have gotten 1 on 1 with guys many times in the past few months. My husband sets it up for me and I love turning him on by banging other men SAFELY!
Thing that I feel bad for is we are in a open Marriage. He can also sleep with other women. It seems that unless the woman is with a couple they turn down the idea of being with a married man?
Is this only in America and why? It would seem you would want a married man that does not come with excess baggage if you're on a hookup site like Tinder or Meet me.
CityHookups.com doesn't seem to offer much for him either. I feel bad for my Hubby because I loved watching him fuck other women when we would swap!
One lady held his dick while I sucked it and that was AMAZING!

But I would love to hear a 1 on 1 time that he had with a woman and he is upfront and honest. He tells them he is married and that I am good with it. Shouldn't women like that?

43534bob 62M
86 posts
12/6/2017 6:41 pm

your husband is lucky to have you...What about it ladies?


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/6/2017 7:02 pm

I would guess that many of the women on this site(s) are wary of married men. Probably because many of them don't have "permission" from their wives.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/6/2017 7:26 pm

There is also that very real possibility that a lot of the women here were
cheated on so that scenario may not be to their liking.

Using more than all the road!


texpassinthur 75M
19 posts
12/6/2017 9:46 pm

you are a lucky lady


Yours_4A_knight 59M

12/7/2017 1:04 am

My take on the topic is that it comes back to the basic unbalance between genders on this site, especially here in the midwest.

There are a series of attributes that everyone in the casual sex dating pool has, body type, kinks and experience with them, age, health, real-world entanglements, proximity, smoking, drinking drug use, and on down the line. By being already in a committed relationship your husband is usually spotting other men without that trait between say 1 and 100 "points", I guess that there might be some women who prefer that their partners are getting their emotional needs met elsewhere so it is just sex but it feels less common. But with so much competition most just plain guys cannot afford to give up any edge because viable partners are so scarce.

Now women on the other hand for many men having a committed partner and just being in the market for energetic sex is a good thing, at least in my book. In short being a hot wife like yourself is a thing, without a male equivalent in anything but fantasy

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
12/7/2017 5:25 am

Question for you... when you meet other men, are they single or married?

IMO, it's not the excess baggage, it's that most married men just don't make any real effort in bed. Even if they have permission, they're used to a married life where the woman does everything for them and that lends itself to a lazy attitude towards the bedroom. That's why most single girls aren't interested in married men, they've got a pool of single men to choose from who at least make more of an effort to please.


sexisfun49127 54M
88 posts
12/8/2017 2:11 pm

one thing is there is like 500 guys to every women so the odds are in your favor,
but seems as though some would be more open to play with him being your up front and know ..


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
12/19/2017 12:43 pm

A Professor on this site did an interesting poll of women members here about affairs with married men. Infidelity Series He cited a couple of studies by news magazines on the same topic. I'm sure you'd enjoy reading it. There were several related posts.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


attorney55 70M
21 posts
2/19/2018 1:40 pm

Reading through your comments, my wife does not know. I'm a bit perplexed about Tickle's comment. I don't know about the married men she's had who were lazy or had a lazy attitude toward the bedroom. I have few friends on this site, but no one, including yours truly, are lazy. I enjoy women and am into it for all I'm worth! I must say, Cam, that you are truly one special woman! Hubby's a lucky man!


cam49013 45F  
5 posts
5/6/2018 5:22 pm

Thank you all for the comments. TBH we do enhance our love life and enjoy each other. He is not lazy in the bedroom and it's sad he is judged to that level.


DonecFemina 60F  
6 posts
5/6/2018 5:58 pm

My husband thoroughly enjoys watching me with other men, and it's a huge turn on to our relationship. However, it's difficult to find a woman for him. Personally, I think more women are looking for a LTR instead of just sex. But that's just my opinion. We have yet to find that elusive unicorn!


maleinnileslooki 60M
13 posts
7/17/2019 6:21 pm

My wife has lost interest in sex, we use to swing as a couple till she said we were done. Here now by myself. I can attest, hard to find a female to have a FWB thing


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