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Only here for the blogs  

justplayin16061 54F
259 posts
5/22/2016 6:49 pm
Only here for the blogs


I see this on profiles, "I'm only here for the blogs." Right now, I'm only here for the blogs. I'm not interested in meeting anyone. I have to assume that most people who are sticking around for the blogs are like me. We joined the site with the intention of finding a sex partner. Somewhere along the line our focus shifted. Perhaps we met someone who became a permanent part of our life or maybe we just gave up on finding anyone. My question is, if you are a member who joined looking for sex and now you're just here for the blogs, do you find the site more enjoyable now?

restate 79M
2241 posts
5/22/2016 6:53 pm

And as yet, you haven't followed your own guidelines to becoming a Top Blogger.


justplayin16061 replies on 5/22/2016 7:01 pm:
I've decided I'd rather be liked than popular.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/22/2016 6:53 pm

I love doing the blogs with others- we seem to be more open and honest that those who often "hit" on us ( male or female)

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justplayin16061 replies on 5/22/2016 7:03 pm:
I'm picking up on that. Blogs feel more personal.

xtcnsideu 118M
460 posts
5/22/2016 7:02 pm

Yeah I do. I don't have any expectations here, never have really. There's not that many women in my area anyway. I work a lot and my time is limited and this is just a form of entertainment at this point. Doesn't mean I wouldn't be up for meeting someone, just not looking for it.


justplayin16061 replies on 5/22/2016 7:05 pm:
It's much more relaxing this way.

lookinghard6669 58M
365 posts
5/22/2016 7:09 pm

Blogging is kind of fun. I never had any expectations here but I have made a few good friends. I'm not sure I'm here for the blogging or for the friends I made that are here....


justplayin16061 replies on 5/22/2016 7:18 pm:
My friends here are the reason I've come to the blogs.

iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
5/22/2016 7:21 pm

I'm mostly here for the blogs but I must admit the pics are nice too.


justplayin16061 replies on 5/23/2016 3:59 am:
Pics never hurt

hrdallnght4u 67M

5/22/2016 7:45 pm

I am here for both blogging and looking for fwb..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


justplayin16061 replies on 5/23/2016 4:00 am:
The best of both...

jessabell1967 57F
208 posts
5/23/2016 5:46 am

I think the blogs are the best part of the site.


justplayin16061 replies on 5/23/2016 7:19 pm:
I think I agree.

phil9153x1 57M
315 posts
5/25/2016 2:40 pm

I joined the site after the wife left me and the kid in 2001 . Had high expectations on finding someone who just wanted sex . Its hard being a single parent doing double duty . I even went gold twice changed my profile several times . Never met anyone thru emails or the shitty messenger , so as the years have gone on I read the blogs and watch 1 cam at a time . Now today i log on and you need to tip 20 tokens to view a cam . I think next it will be tip 5 tokens to read a blog lol . Join for free they said get laid they said what a crock of shit this site has become , all i wanted to do was meet a woman in my age group and area .. enough of my ranting . justplaying16061 nice subject and nice profile and pics from what i can see as being standred member


182east 66M
1295 posts
6/25/2016 3:02 pm

I joined many years ago after my fiance died..I must admit I have not really attempted to make it work cause I feel I am not what seems to be "Marketable" on here.
I met 1 person 5 yrs ago and it was just to meet and it was a no chemistry thing at least for me..we went for a walk and talked and that was that.
Blogs I read alot and that seems to be my only reason to be here as now I am even less marketable than before..as in older less attractive etc,,
I really think I have given up "looking" and just get on here to read blogs..Keep up the good work as I am a new watcher and I like your blog..
Thanks..


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