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Orgasms  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15131 posts
7/27/2018 5:54 am
Orgasms


CAN YOU TELL IF A WOMAN IS FAKING IT???

I MUST admit... I've gotten really good at faking it.

A lot of women I talk to say that men just aren't that great in bed... and are really quick.... and they just get frustrated and fake it...

Your opinion????

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chaso5 65M

7/27/2018 5:57 am

YES!


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 5:57 am

What is the give away??? lol

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chaso5 65M

7/27/2018 5:58 am

But even if no - I would always be polite enough to ask if she needed any further attention!!


tmacshane26 39M
2092 posts
7/27/2018 5:59 am

It depends on the sexual situation. If your barely making love to her and she is faking it. It means maybe she is bored and thinks you will finish early. If your realy giving it to her she will have multiple orgasms and enjoy wvery second of it. She will come back for more.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:01 am

    Quoting chaso5:
    But even if no - I would always be polite enough to ask if she needed any further attention!!


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:01 am

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    It depends on the sexual situation. If your barely making love to her and she is faking it. It means maybe she is bored and thinks you will finish early. If your realy giving it to her she will have multiple orgasms and enjoy wvery second of it. She will come back for more.


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Iamlooking4funu2 50M
109 posts
7/27/2018 6:05 am

Yes and No . All women orgasm in different ways with different actions. If you like it one way then speak up and get what you want and need to get the job done.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
7/27/2018 6:06 am

Hello Kitten!
I you did fake it I would not know you did! But I can last a long time in bed very long time!
Classy Cat
Butch


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:06 am

    Quoting Iamlooking4funu2:
    Yes and No . All women orgasm in different ways with different actions. If you like it one way then speak up and get what you want and need to get the job done.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:07 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello Kitten!
    I you did fake it I would not know you did! But I can last a long time in bed very long time!
    Classy Cat
    Butch
How would you know??? meow

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:12 am

    Quoting  :

That is sad. Something needs to happen t bring back the spark.

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bitchkitty2017 71F

7/27/2018 6:17 am

of course all women fake it every now and then how else can you boost a mans ego if you don't?..lol...if a man knows how to totally satisfy a woman hes only worth a fake orgasm !


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/27/2018 6:26 am

YIKES - now you got me wondering!!

But unless the lie too, most are very complimentary afterwards, and eager to go again, so...

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:28 am

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    of course all women fake it every now and then how else can you boost a mans ego if you don't?..lol...if a man knows how to totally satisfy a woman hes only worth a fake orgasm !
True!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:33 am

    Quoting  :

You are too young to have that much experience.. aren't you?? lol

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hrdallnght4u 67M

7/27/2018 7:07 am

You must also lick,kiss and suck on Her pussy to make sure She orgasms..and
when She coats Your face and tongue with sweet hot pussy nectar..You know
She had an orgasm...Yummy

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HedonicHeathen 56M
198 posts
7/27/2018 7:10 am

Are her lips moving?
Oh wait that is for the more northern expression of disingenuous wind ... in which case as evidence just like guys with the movement of lips.

Wilhelm Reich put it that the true function of the Orgasm was to release the neurotic tension of the normal acculturated clutter of tensions, unresolved conflict, BS, the 8 winds, whatever hassles that life presents internal OR external ... Endogenous OR Exdogenous ... Inspired OR expired dreams not met. All those little things that collect like unresolved desires to punch a clock OR for once not having to take orders from a watch - whatever... it accumulates like everything does and that which is not handled ... could be released through orgasm. Which if down with the full reflexive arch releases that tension. Not the with strained held back, 'barely moved by', narcissistic wenches of a disaffected porn star or sex worker.

This gets at the question of what is real Vs Fake. Orgasm an essential part of the notion of sex, but not the whole of it. Likewise, sex is not the whole of an identity or personality, but an important part of it - fundamentally so -and so on to gender and culture.

Critics of the modern world state that the civilizing of the sex act is more the sophistication of the natural functions. They miss, I think, the point that without civilizing and culture, one is likely to be hunted like an animal and treated as such with maxims of 'He who makes a beast of himself erases the pain of being a man'. Meanwhile cynical sex experts more concerned with being able to out-fake the Other and appear more functional ... don't really release the tension and thereby really do miss the release of the possibly more authentic orgasm reflex and thereby make the necessity of faking it and fooling them and the facade of more all majority all the more unavoidable.

You could dive deep on the topic ... Spend some time with Tantra, ESO, Taoist Sex play ... OR ... if you wanna nerd about it ...Kama Sutra/I-ching 8x8 64 matix of 3D chess played with a doe, mare, and bull-elephant squaring off with the rabbit, steed, or Bull ... cause you know nothing speaks of chess like barnyard follies! Get down into that Orgasm ... lose your mind if you don't mind. Fucking cum from your earth center foot reflex out through your thurd eye. What do you have to lose? Other than competitive and cognitive edge over another that you may or may not trust .... depending on your own level of security and fittedness.

After learning these things .... I think in the end seeing that while a good gasm is a release it is not a solution to the accumulation of enturbulated BS, just a repense with an expense... But man can I fake an orgasm so much better than when I was younger, dumber and filled with more poison. Can I spot a faker ... yeah every time ... They aren't hard to spot ... I see one every day in the morning staring back at me in the mirror.

Spotting the fake is easy ... that's the norm. Spotting the genuine article .. the realer than real, no sincerity spouting, verbal 'spressions of the OKness with being an animal and OKness with being around other human's without concern that one or the other might get in the ear. That's more challenging and so easy to lose sight of in the pornification of culture and the culture of porn that passes for the social milieu of 'Do onto others before they do onto you.'

Saw Tommy Chong Recently interviewed by Snoop Dogg and he said he did time with that wolf of wall street guy and the advice Tommy gave him was 'nah man you can't go on bullshitting about lies anymore, but you can turn it around and start bullshing about the truth.

Enough about the Orgasm ... how about the Norgasm, or the Xorgasm, Xandorgasm, nandorgasm ... so many different ways to walk through the gate.


phillyfriend54 55M
30 posts
7/27/2018 7:39 am

I always cum after the girl to the point that I'm sure she has had an orgasm....there is a spot I reach that seems to transform the action from nice to NICE!


B0x069xxx 47M
133 posts
7/27/2018 8:44 am

Can can always tell if she faking or not. It’s almost impossible for a woman to fake the vaginal spasms as it clinches tight around my fingers or cock.
Just sayin. LOL
And a real man will focus on making you cum bc it’s almost always guarantied men will come. It’s a big difference between men and fuckboys. LOL


vanbumlvr 57M
392 posts
7/27/2018 10:02 am

.. brings back memories of the Seinfeld episode with Elaine admitting to faking it all. priceless!


luvgluv19 75M

7/27/2018 10:08 am

If you properly apply the kisses to the neck and ears then move down to the sides and underside of the breasts before going to the nipples for some suckling and fire and ice (blowing alternating cool and warm air over them while they are wet). After that move on down to the spot just above the pelvic bone and hair line to softly lick and once again fire and ice over her inner cervix. Once done with that seperate the outer and inner lips and work fire and ice on her clit and a methodlically tongue massage her clit if she is faking it is because this is her fourth or fifth orgasm you gave her


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/27/2018 2:11 pm

I love going down on Women...I get them nice and wet...if they are faking it, they are doing an excellent job!!


rick315875 65M

7/27/2018 5:02 pm

If you are feeling frustrated and feel like you need to fake it. Then I would suggest talking with your sexual partner communicating your thoughts and feelings about your sexual interaction.


Lostincarlsbad 63M
34 posts
7/27/2018 9:36 pm

What a beautiful young lady you are. The key isn't how long you last as a guy. It's the fore play. You have to satisfy your lady with some foreplay before you get down to business. Women seem to be quite insatiable. SO the more kissing, nibbling and attention you give them the more they'll want you to come back


delogh 47M

7/28/2018 1:23 am

What's the point of faking it? Wouldn't be best to be honest and find out ways for everybody involve to enjoy it?


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