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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/19/2017 6:04 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    I guess I'm lucky I live where I live.
    The highly measured personalities
    that generally pervade the site locally
    makes this a no issue issue.
    And here I always thought popularity
    was a good thing.
    Sorry for your grief.
It's just one of those annoying little glitches that we all experience on this site occasionally I suppose.

I don't consider myself popular....I just think all women are, so the minute one logs into the IM....the messages start.....lol.

That's great if one is interested in chatting, but if not....then being logged on to the IM without your permission so to speak, is just annoying.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/19/2017 6:06 pm

    Quoting peterlikesplay2:
    well it has an off switch...which i use all the time..otherwise it can be annoying..when i don't want to use it
That's about what I do....just slide the little "button" over to busy and problem solved....until it slides itself over mysteriously.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/19/2017 6:13 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    From what your describing hun it sounds like maybe it's just on the cell phones as when I'm on my computer I don't see anything like that. Being on phone on the site sucks big time.. I hope you figure it out soon..
I very rarely go on the site, on my cell phone, and if I do I click on the link to use the full web version. If you use their app version or whatever it is....that's when you get logged in to IM automatically.

This has just started occurring when I'm on my laptop. It's just annoying, but I'll live....lol I just slide the switch to busy if I don't feel like chatting.

Just another A*F*F glitch we deal with sometimes...

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/19/2017 6:17 pm

    Quoting notsure1949:
    this has happened to others, says they are logged on IM when the are not
Well technically I am logged into the IM, but it is the site doing it to me automatically.

But I have read about all kinds of glitches with the IM....so this is just another one.

Maybe one day they will make actual improvements that work......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/19/2017 6:21 pm

    Quoting  :

You may be right....I think they do try to do things to get men to commit to an upgraded membership.

It's just annoying, but one of those things I guess we deal with sometimes to be on the site.

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let_me_see1 64M

12/20/2017 4:55 am

Wouldn't it be nice if the CityHookups.com honchos would just read a few of the blogs and realize that their ship is sinking? There are so many things that this site does wrong. Could you imagine if this site was for a company that sold candles? The only thing that keeps them in business is that we all enjoy the sex stuff on here. Otherwise, we wouldn't tolerate it and they would have been out of business long ago!

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/20/2017 9:07 am

    Quoting  :

I'm glad it's not just me that's annoyed....lol

I really don't use the IM either, many times the opening lines of the men from there are as bad as the ones you get in emails. I learned that by the very, very few times I looked at it.

I just turn the little switch to busy if it magically turns on.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/20/2017 9:12 am

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Wouldn't it be nice if the CityHookups.com honchos would just read a few of the blogs and realize that their ship is sinking? There are so many things that this site does wrong. Could you imagine if this site was for a company that sold candles? The only thing that keeps them in business is that we all enjoy the sex stuff on here. Otherwise, we wouldn't tolerate it and they would have been out of business long ago!
It would be nice, and you would think that they would take a few cues from their members in the blogs commenting on the annoying aspects of this site.

I guess they bank on the concept that sex sells and just run with that. But how much more $$ could they rake in if things actually worked right and more people were willing to shell out the money for gold memberships.

I bet many don't because they see all the complaints and figure.....why bother!

Ahhhhhhh....such is life on A*F*F......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
1/17/2018 10:28 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the agreement and the compliment!

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