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Presumptions? Or Do You Really Know?
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Presumptions? Or Do You Really Know? I saw this caption or headline on a man's profile and it got me to thinking! Some men claim to know what a woman wants and needs…(this guy said he did) Do you (men) really know what a woman wants and needs? Are we talking just sexually here buddy? That's what I wondered first! And just how do you know what a woman wants and needs? Has this come from years of experience? Or is this in a generic sense? - because all women aren't the same, my friends….What one woman wants and needs in bed, may not be what your next lover does . So do you just assume that the next one will want the same as the last one? In case you weren't aware, each woman is an individual with her own wants..needs..desires...feelings.., and if the guy cares enough - he should want to find out….. not just assume. And then proceed of course, to give it to her…...lol Then I wondered if he knows what a woman wants or needs emotionally or would even care.. Do men care? I suppose it would depend on the type of thing one has, fuck buddies….FWB or a more “committed” relationship. If it’s just fuck buddies,then caring about her emotional needs probably wouldn’t matter as much or at all. I would think that FWB, as well as a more “traditional” relationship would or should require more care. These reflect my opinion...and apply to both sexes really! I just directed it more towards men because of the post I had read.... No one should assume to know what an individual wants or needs-It should be something that is talked about and discussed, so all parties involved are getting those things...both sexually and emotionally. Much of this is (or should be) common sense...but you all read profiles and know it goes over heads occasionally….lol It takes two baby (or more if that’s your thing)...to make a thing go right!! But communication is the key…..NOT assumption!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL  |
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What it comes down to is that we are simply on a sex site....we are not suppose to have genuine feelings or emotions for complete strangers. Men come to this site for someone to fuck and they don't care about how they get there...(women do to apparently) There will be no sweet words of seduction, they do not want to try to get to know you, and if they do it would be just the miniumum requirement to try to seduce you into bed... Just my two cents worth...
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Assume Nothing, Presume that you Know Nothing, Ask about Everything. Experience has shown the Lovely Siren and myself that People, not just women, are ever changeable, from day to day, hour to hour, perhaps even minute to minute. What "worked" yesterday may be irritating today, and vice versa. So....communication in the form of conversation would seem to be the order of the day. After all, isn't communication what any form of relationship depends upon?? And who doesn't like a good conversation anyway, especially of a naughty nature??
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I know nothing. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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I agree every woman's wants and needs are different. And it's my experience that their wants and needs change over time. Standards are people too.....kinda 
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