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Blogs > GreenEyedLady_60 > A Little This - A Little That

Should You?  

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1809 posts
12/14/2015 8:10 am
Should You?

Question to the men or ladies...please feel free to give your opinion. I like to hear them!!

If you are involved with someone in a friends & lovers type of relationship (that is believed to be sexually exclusive) and one of the parties has more emotional attachment than the other....and has expressed that and made it plain there are feelings involved...

Should the less attached person be a bit cognizant of those feelings and take them into consideration in their "dealings" with one another?

Or is it just the "problem" of the one with the feelings and no consideration is necessary?
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


oral2plsu2 64M
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5820 posts
12/14/2015 8:20 am

 yes take them into consideration but don't let the attached person get to clingy.


GreenEyedLady_60 replies on 12/14/2015 8:36 am:
And what would your definition of clingy be?

dodgecock8 45M
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12/14/2015 8:42 am

 in this case it not a good situation for the one with more feelings.


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
12/14/2015 8:59 am

 It needs to be addressed, b/c if you truly want to continue a fwb no real strings relationship you both need to be on the same page.
The no strings person is at risk of getting caught and the one with deeper feelings of getting emotionally hurt.


windsjohn 73M  
798 posts
12/14/2015 10:07 am

 Yes he/she should be cognizant and and respect it.


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/14/2015 10:16 am

 Thanks so far....excellent points all!!

I think the main point and most important IS communication & absolute honesty in ANY relationship is paramount....be it spouses...fuck buddies...even just plain old run of the mill friendships!!!
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/15/2015 7:09 am

 You've got that absolutely right yellowflower (love the name btw)....You have to be honest about your feelings!! And that is something I AM 100%......
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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