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FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
6/3/2018 1:34 pm

Membership on this site is pretty slim in my neck of the woods, so the chances of ever meeting anyone who messages me are so slim they are almost negative. I only check out those who live within a reasonable driving distance.

I don't spend any time wondering if the details of someone are real, or fictional. It's a waste of my time.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
6/3/2018 10:12 pm

Hi Joy...

thanks for posting this one...

I've discussed this topic with a number of women from this site... well, they said they were women... and, I have no way to tell... without going crazy to research it all the way thru... and, I give them latitude... because I believe in "live and let live"... some say that, but don't know the meaning...

the way women have explained it to me... they have had stalkers... or bad experiences and the site is not 100% fool proof for guaranteeing people's privacy... and... of course... the site is setup for people to meet... it is not a religious experience... although... I guess it could be if you met your spouse here... before they were your spouse... just sayin'...

others... are... of course scammers of some sort... I've had three in the past three years... and, now I recognize the behavior pattern, so I can limit my time investment...

some are pros looking to increase their profitability numbers... luring people to other sites... yes... they are out there...

then... you have the 1000% men to women ratio that might make people try setting up multiple accounts to see what works kind of like the Bill Murray movie where he tries to get the day right... and, you have to experiment with all kinds of options, until you get it right... seems crazy... but, there it is...

and.... then... maybe... the site thru ambassadors or bots... sends bogus messages to members to elicit more participation on the site... this allows them to market their products to other online businesses based on volume traffic and customer behavior analysis...

well... that's all I've got to say about that...

hmm...

"love don't live here anymore"... maybe, it never did...

Madonna - "Love Don’t Live Here Anymore"

You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don't live here anymore
When you lived inside of me
There was nothing I could conceive
That you wouldn't do for me
Trouble seemed so far away
You changed that right away, baby
You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don't live here anymore
Love don't live here anymore
Just emptiness and memories
Of what we had before
You went away
Found another place to stay, another home
You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don't live here anymore
You're the windmills of my eyes
Everyone can see the loneliness inside me
Why'd ya have to go away (away)
Don't you know I miss you so and need your love
You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
(Love don't…

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
6/4/2018 7:51 am

I seldom check on folks who view my blog...the numbers are high compared to the comments but I cherish the comments left...a few have me scratching various parts of my anatomy (from head to crotch)
I only have one profile and rarely change any part of it but "what you see is what you get"...I do "impersonate" one other person here but I do impersonate him in my real world also!


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/5/2018 6:17 pm

I simply do not understand the need to have more than one profile. Even though I'm cautious with the photos I post and some of the details I share, the rest is all me. I don't know any other way to be. If it's not information I'm comfortable with sharing, I just don't share it...I won't lie about it.

Today, when I logged in, I saw two of the exact same profile pics with two different user names in the "who's online now" part of my "home" page. Guessing that one is fake and they snagged his photo...

(Funny...I have a post about the facts people post in their profiles...it's not quite ready yet... )

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


astute2r3 68M

6/7/2018 4:44 am

your deduction seems pretty accurate, by my account. Would it not be great if there was a site where one would have to get qualified to enter? Where the system, some higher quality system, would essentially sift though all the BS and the Not So Desired, thus providing a quality over quantity aspect, for those desiring the same? ENJOY


Yours_4A_knight 59M

6/10/2018 9:03 pm

I get so little attention that I hardly notice (well except for profile views, flirts and hotlisting which are all totally false or so many are that they are all suspect.

But my read is that you are thinking two different things:

Unavailable Profiles, which are profiles that have been shut off for some reason (might be just too new to have been looked over) or shutdown at either there own request or because of some misdeed.

And the thin profile, no or few pictures, and basically no effort, and just a vehicle for someone to access the site for reason unknown. Which you are starting to read as a bad actor who is looking to cause you problems in someway. I do see, how having the experiences that you have had with people who think that it s fine for them to behave badly when the chances of negative repercussion are minimal (e.i. from the safety of mother's basement). I have a tendency to think that when I encounter it that the user had violated the rules in some manner, like alternate form of contact in the profile.

Maybe I pass unnoticed by the stalkers because I am no fun for them, as I have never had that experience of having someone do that to me, though I think that it has more to do with me simply being forgettable.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


SolarPowered0 118M
8346 posts
6/12/2018 11:11 pm


So... my dear Author--

What you're trying to tell us is... you actually believe any of this crap?

The peeps hated my profile so much that I had to actually put my info in my BLOG. Every word is the truth, too.

Ya know, my ex-wife accused me of spousal abuse. Seems that "brutal honesty" is considered abuse these days. That's probably why ya can't find any truthful buzzards hangin' out in these parts. Of course--that don't apply to me...

BTW: did I mention my 12" cock? Why, no; no--I don't believe I did.

Solar...


_IKanCu2_ 105M

6/23/2018 12:23 am

    Quoting  :

unavailable ?

Well ya,,, ]['m with You for 3 day*z and were hurting ourselve*z till we can barely walk straight.


_IKanCu2_ 105M

6/23/2018 7:40 am

    Quoting  :

aaawwwww... Yer just sssssoooooo busy with all those other /-/0T fella*z.
][''ll jus stay in Yur recovery room till you try and ravage Me again.


Yoursideguy76 47M

6/25/2018 9:54 pm

I wouldn’t know if females get this but as a male, I get cam girls, hookers, and web trolls cat fishing for other sites
I get a couple bogus messages and views each time I come online
Its fairly obvious which are bs
Upon checking the profile it’s unavailable or by that time already dead
It’s running rampant all over. Not just an CityHookups.com problem


Amoculi 67M
19 posts
6/25/2018 11:13 pm

Well I think two things. One, you point out, as you say, that there are a lot of phonies on this and every similar site. Two, you have a fine ass. Just that little peek I get in your photos tells me that. Do I have to be a Canadian to lick it? Your ass, not the photos.


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