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3 somes Tell me, if you've had a threesome. Did you know the 3rd wheel? If so for how long? What type of things make a threesome awkward? and GO |
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I love threesomes with Bi couples, which I assume makes me the third wheel. Awkward feelings happen if the couple isn't equally interested in the group play... I am very orally Bi and love to enjoy both my partners that way. If they are into it, it works
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almost had one, but it did not happen
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I enjoy a straight MFM and FMF. I get together with couples so I am the third wheel. We generally engage in dialogue and meet up prior to having the 3sum. The length of time varies based on their experience and comfort level. Threesomes can be awkward if everyone isn't into it in the same degree. If someone in the couple is doing it just to please their partner it can be awkward.
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Conversation before is important. We found that it doesn't work well if the extra person is married. No matter what they say.
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As with all of our "encounters", we chat extensively with any potential playmates, be they single, or a couple. IF the chatting goes well, we move onto some form of face to face. At THAT point, I generally take a back seat, the better to let the women control the situation. Especially with threesomes, it will be THEY who are generally enjoying most of the playtime, so their compatibility is of the foremost concern. Since the Lovely Siren likes women as much ( or more ) than myself, this protocol seems to work well to ensure that any threesomes we share are a good time for all concerned. The only time we had ANYthing approaching awkwardness in a threesome date, was when the other Lady, ( who was Delightful, and extremely nice ) grew overly fascinated with Siren's squirting, and literally wouldn't stop making her orgasm past the point of mutual participation. As in any situation where WHAT is being done overwhelms the sensuality of the moment, it bordered on "being used". But, once we moved on to "other" erotic playtime, the rest of the evening was more than wonderful .
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Well lets see. Our first was with a couple that we met from CityHookups.com and it started out ok. Frost time was the two men and his wife then the two men and my wife then things went south from there and the other guy wanted me to leave my husband for him. Was not going to happen! The second was with another couple that we met on CityHookups.com and i just was not into the male from the couple. Had a few times with the two guys and his wife then she came over by herself to our place and i enjoyed the tow females with my husband until she got a little eager while licking me and ended up biting me. After that things slowed down and they ended up moving away. The third was with a high school friend of my husbands. She needed a place to stay and i was happy to have another female to talk with from time to time. things led up to me talking to her about what my husband and i had done in the past and she said that it sounded like fun. From that time on it went a little farther a few times till i asked her to lay in bed with us and unknown to my husband I told her if things happen then just see where they go. Well I guess it caught my husband off guard but I think he got really turned on and thats when the fun really began. Had a few times with her and he had some alone time with her while i was at work and we were both fine with that but i really liked the times that we had with all three of us. Thats when I found out that I wanted to try things with her. Had a few kisses and touches but never went beyond that. She moved out but came back a couple times and we had a lot of fun and i still want to explore more but she is no longer around for us to try new things. Oh well guess we will just have to keep looking for what we really want.
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Yes, I have and yes, I knew the third person. It was my wife (now ex-wife) and one of her friends that I knew fairly well. It was totally awesome when we did it, but unfortunately, it opened up a can of worms that ultimately lead to my divorce. I'm not saying that it's always a bad idea, but I will caution anyone that wants to try it to make sure that everyone is honest in their intentions and that your existing relationship be solid before attempting.
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My wife likes to invite people over and just get naked. She says it just gets past the awkward part. She is usually the first to be undressed!
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1 post 11/15/2015 4:00 pm |
I am looking to have another 3 some with my new husband. It is a fantasy of his and I have done it before and really enjoyed it. The experience can be great as long as both parties are on the same page and you are willing to communicate and trust each other,jzeagler41
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11/17/2015 11:01 am |
I have only been in a FMF threesome twice, both times with the same two women. It was a woman that I had met online and had played with a couple times. On one of our hookups she asked if it was OK for a friend to join in, at that point I didn't know if she was talking about a woman or a man but I said that I was good with it. It ended up being a female friend of hers that she played with regularly. The first time was a little bit awkward as we met at pretty much the same time we got naked, we still had fun and the second time a couple weeks later was great. Shortly after that my friend who was sort of the center of the threesome met someone and got serious with him. I am a straight man, but have a long time desire to be in a MFM threesome, but haven't had the opportunity yet.
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Love all the comments... thank you
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I did have a 3 some with a girl and guy I've never met. Matter of fact none of new the other. It was weird having another cock near me but I got used to it. The girl had a DP fantasy and we obliged her. It started out with drinks and watching some porn and then rolled into getting her naked. She loosened up soon after and we had a great time. Looking forward to the next adventure.
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Yes, I've had several threesomes , the first time was awkward not knowing what to expect, but they became more fun and enjoyable after you become more comfortable with each other, open communication is the key , and I knew my partners well!! I believe this can be very akward unless all involved are open and ready !
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I was the third for a married couple. We had a lot in common and the conversation was great. He mostly watched while his wife and I cavorted and then followed up with her at the end. All of us would be happy to do it again if we lived closer.
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