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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??  

samson19682006 56M
1435 posts
1/16/2020 12:06 pm

Love your curves.


Boatsandhoes007 41M

1/16/2020 12:07 pm

Very pretty


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
1/16/2020 12:08 pm

I absolutely go with *confidence*.

That said, the *data* indicate that humans- whether it's in a biz meeting, a social gathering or pouring over an on-line profile- are first attracted (or not) by physical features. The question is: how do we process these first impressions and use them to guide what we do next? In deciding my responses, I bear in mind an old bromide from Army infantry: "The first report from the field is always wrong."

A person with poise and confidence projects a powerful attraction- capable of overcoming many impressions received on a *first look*. The key is to restrain impulsive summary judgment and open one's heart and mind to the full, four-dimensional picture.

I will also share that all of us- regardless of age and/or circumstances- are capable of *change*. I appreciate the challenges of inertia, the inevitable decay of our energy that begins in middle age and that *change* is more easily counseled than achieved. All the more reason to find a partner with whom to share your journey of change. The thrills and accountability of an awesome connection can be the force of change.


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
1/16/2020 12:11 pm

Confidence goes a long way to me.
Every body is different.
If you know it a use it to your advantage.
It beautiful to me.
You have both.you also have a beautiful smile.
Beautiful eyes how couldany one not love you.
Your smart and that a turn on
So have a wonderful day hope your warm enough.
XOXOXO Thomas


benard69 66M/66F  

1/16/2020 12:14 pm

Just as long as you are Healthy and Happy...It's all that really counts...But must say your body with creative camera angles (As you say) is more than desirable...


Piper3654K 54M
141 posts
1/16/2020 12:19 pm

Confidence confidence confidence..... very sexy. You have more than you think, even though you say you're "good with camera angles" you'd probably not be posting pics if you didn't know at some level you're damn attractive.


SC4wheels 50M
410 posts
1/16/2020 12:33 pm

Confidence and attitude. There are women of all shapes/sizes that are sexy and women of all shapes/sizes that aren't. There are plenty of women with "super model" bodies that are very unattractive when you talk to them.


Myoraldesire 44M

1/16/2020 12:45 pm

Confidence and comfort with herself, hands down!


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
1/16/2020 12:48 pm

None of us have the perfect body. We are all unique. I didn't always enjoy my body until I joined this site. I love your curvy body and you are much more than average. I think women are harder on themselves when they see their bodies. This whole thing about needing to have the ideal body is just fantasy. You have many wonderful qualities along with your gorgeous body that make you a one of a kind and very desirable.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


inprimeageguy4u 46M
13 posts
1/16/2020 12:56 pm

Id say its a mixture of both, and by the way you look amazing


needitnow69nks 53M  
43 posts
1/16/2020 12:58 pm

I love women of all shapes and sizes. Though I do tend to lean more towards the thicker and curvier ladies


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/16/2020 1:13 pm

I've always been attracted to bigger women. They are more confident, caring and cuddly. Just like your good self


Lonely16842 59M
883 posts
1/16/2020 1:22 pm

Confidence and personality definitely, I don't focus on body type at all. Oh and in your case as you already know..... your eyes. I could get lost there


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
1/16/2020 2:46 pm

For me it is mostly about confidence.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


stopbyandsayboo 52M
1295 posts
1/16/2020 3:32 pm

    Quoting  :

I totally agree...Sure looks play some part but a long lasting relationship stems from within...That never changes or grows old

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
1/16/2020 4:41 pm

Sexiness is in the mind for me.


aspencutter 62M
85 posts
1/16/2020 5:25 pm

only comment i am going to try now is i fall into your eyes


Tbadboytoy69 64M
257 posts
1/16/2020 6:41 pm

Inner beauty is true but I have to be honest. If your ugly your ugly. No amount of inner beauty will help you. I’m not a good looking guy. I try and use humor. My wife is ugly like me. That is why we are together. Mr and Mrs Fugly. Beer googles in college.


furry7890 51M

1/16/2020 6:58 pm

i am a face man, if i find her face attractive nothing else matters to me. if i can not stand looking at someone it is not going to work no matter how hot her body is. ps, you have a very beautiful face!!!!


slutcd4u2 63T  
33 posts
1/16/2020 7:09 pm

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
Don't feed the Gremlins after midnight !!! You are Beautiful ! and Confident!!! , I'm not sure what attracts me in general as sometimes i see this shy thing over in the corner getting me all hot n bothered .. or the bold one who is the life of the night might get me wound up too ! I think its just the person and my mood at that moment , body type isn't a major factor as long as they are healthy .


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
1/16/2020 7:14 pm

You look perfect to me and it looks like you are quite confident and comfortable. Just be your self and have fun.


dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
1/16/2020 7:48 pm

What I find attractive in a woman really has nothing to do with her body or her appearance. I am far more attracted to her sweetness, playfulness and sense of humor. Life is truly magical when you have someone that treasures the opportunity to laugh with you and share in all of the joys of your day. That said, I totally adore curves and the amazing suppleness that accompanies them so I may be a bit biased. No matter how stunningly beautiful she is when you’re first attracted, when you find that special chemistry with someone the attraction grows exponentially.

Life's a journey not a destination

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Sexczy69 71M  
3703 posts
1/16/2020 8:29 pm

The smile is what I go for... a great smile and warm heart...


looking4fun71756 64M
15 posts
1/16/2020 9:33 pm

I like big beautiful women. I honestly think you taste better! You certainly are more passionate.


dublos 58M
132 posts
1/16/2020 9:59 pm

Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??


Yes.

A woman who has an attractive body type and no confidence? Not attractive.
A woman who has confidence yet does not take care of her body? Not attractive.

A woman who's got both? Much more attractive.


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