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hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:06 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    There is absolutely no doubt that you are so worth waiting for
Thank you sweet friend. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Uncool yes. That is why I never have expectations. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:09 pm

    Quoting gardenboy321:
    I think your rules are fine. It's all about respect, trust, and comfort level.
Yes respect, trust and comfort are important factors. It is always great to see you Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much sexy friend. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:11 pm

    Quoting xist4more:
    You are right on point. Chemistry needs to be tested to prevent explosive results (just as my profile says).

    I love the look in your pic. All the best to you!

    Until then...

    Feel free to kik me, same username
Thank you. Truth be told I never Kik before..lol.. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:12 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much sweet friend. It is always a pleasure to see you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:14 pm

    Quoting hardandread81000:
    wow, some people have no class. Yes this site is to meet up to have some fun but you are not a pocket pussy. It is good and for your safety to have rules and no you should not bend them unless you feel safe and the chemistry. Stay safe and protect yourself when you go meet, have some mace or something .
Yes. Some people feel like this a Instant hookup site however that is not what it is for me. I appreciate you kind words. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:15 pm

    Quoting mrwalleye15:
    He knew the rules ahead of time, what's the problem? You look great in any color hair! I don't think yo need red to be feisty.
Your right. I am feisty period..lol.. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 4:32 pm

    Quoting kumswaloer3:
    I don't know what you were doing when you were away from here, but you look marvelous darling. As hot, and sexy as ever.
Thank you so much;(


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 4:33 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much Mike


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 4:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes. If someone is going to act like in public what are they capable to do in private. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 4:37 pm

Indeed. I am sorry for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 4:39 pm

    Quoting Philharmonik3:
    natural and beautiful, I love this pic, kisses dear hot mama
Thank you Phil. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 4:40 pm

Thank you Leegs. You have been missing. Good to see you back


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/14/2020 4:44 pm

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    Thank you Leegs. You have been missing. Good to see you back
Thank you my sweet friend!! I would love to tell you what is going on but I can't email you in the system. I 'm standard as you know.


Woahseedstream 43M

1/15/2020 5:25 am

First off the guy was an idiot. From my opinion when meeting people in general I never expect anything physical to happen. But I understand the frustration. However, to answer your question... no rules are definitely required for any kind of real life vs online meeting. Even if you were to look at meeting people in every day to day life we have rules or social mores and norms that we follow without thinking about it.
(IE: personal space, just as an example.)
Now in regards to the coffee shop, I would not worry about avoiding it,
Even if said person were to frequent there, from the way he acted the staff would have him escorted off the premise.


Upgrade_from_Ex 39M

1/16/2020 6:11 am

Very pretty. I’d go on a date with you anytime. Stick to your guns.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
1/16/2020 10:15 am

Don't take what happened at the meeting personally, or as a measure of your making a faulty evaluation of the person or the circumstances.

It sounds like the person was being intentionally obnoxious, in a revengeful sort of way, just to upset/embarrass you. Maybe as a way to get back power over you/the situation, by ruining the scene just like you 'ruined' his hopes.

This reminds me of an experience I had years ago, with someone from a mainstream dating site.
Although it was obvious during our coffee meet that we didn't have a sufficient connection to lead to something further (that is, a second meet), the guy, knowing full well that there is a very slim-to-none chance of getting a yes, suggested we visit the ladies' room so that he could 'feel me up.'

I don't think he actually wanted that, it came off more like intentional meanness, a form of verbal humiliation.

Something I recognized as a pattern of behavior when reading about Harvey Weinstein's mockery of women when they rejected his advances. In spite of the no's he would become more crude and verbally cruel, or, more likely, precisely because of the no's.


slutcd4u2 63T  
33 posts
1/16/2020 7:21 pm

Just glancing through the comments i didn't see anything that if you say "No " it means No and he was wrong in the eyes of the law ! Your rules are just fine as you need to stay safe as it is your body and soul, And he agreed to them by accepting the date !


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
1/17/2020 6:21 pm

Sorry he tried to manipulate you on your first attempt at branching out. A meet and greet at a public place to get acquainted is the safest way to determine chemistry. You are worth waiting for.


whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
1/20/2020 11:23 am

Hey hotmamamm! I just wanted to say that I hope that if you ever need someone to talk to, a person to chat with, let me know. I'm more than willing to talk and help. Even if it's someone to vent to, I'm your man.

Hit me up and let me know.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/20/2020 3:38 pm

    Quoting Woahseedstream:
    First off the guy was an idiot. From my opinion when meeting people in general I never expect anything physical to happen. But I understand the frustration. However, to answer your question... no rules are definitely required for any kind of real life vs online meeting. Even if you were to look at meeting people in every day to day life we have rules or social mores and norms that we follow without thinking about it.
    (IE: personal space, just as an example.)
    Now in regards to the coffee shop, I would not worry about avoiding it,
    Even if said person were to frequent there, from the way he acted the staff would have him escorted off the premise.
Yes I have learned that when it comes to internet dating rules just like in regular life are required. If I wanted a Instant hookup I would go to a bar..lol.. I still don't think I will be getting coffee there anymore. I'm quite embarrassed. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/20/2020 3:39 pm

    Quoting Upgrade_from_Ex:
    Very pretty. I’d go on a date with you anytime. Stick to your guns.
Thank you I will
I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
1/20/2020 4:57 pm

...anything worth doing is worth doing right... never rush a well prepared meal... so to speak.... hold on to your principles... and when you do decide its time to eat... enjoy it immensely...


Procoach60 64M

1/22/2020 5:53 am

I’d love to meet you! I agree chemistry is built over time! Let me know if you want a face pic


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