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hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 11:50 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Do you think rules are too strict?...

    Not at all strict. Those seem like fair rules to me. I have rules , too. One of them is, "If there is no sign of sexual attraction nor sexual interest, then walk away".

    I definitely know I am worth waiting for. ... No woman is worth , "Waiting for". That's just wasting his time. A woman either wants to see the guy naked, or she doesn't. She knows one way or the other within 10 minutes or less of meeting.

    Most men, myself included, will continue to date other women, when one woman is just not sure. . I don't wait. It's yes or it's no.

    Anyway, "Dating" is never exclusive. Exclusivity takes time. Some times never happens.
Fair enough. Truth be told I would never expect a man to wait however I do think I am worth it..lol..If you read my previous posts maybe you would have a better understanding. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 11:52 am

    Quoting  :

He was not a prize..lol.. However it is a new year and I said I was going to put myself out there. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 11:54 am

    Quoting Shots30:
    Your rules are very reasonable and should be honored by any honorable man. The men that expect something right away just because of the site we are on, are animals. And they don't deserve to meet or even be spoken to. I am sorry you had to experience that and make it a bad experience for you stepping out side of your box.

    Stick to your rules and you will find the few that will honor them. Happy New Year!

    Cheers!
It might have been a bad experience but I am happy I stepped outside the box. That was a accomplishment within itself. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 11:55 am

    Quoting  :

Very weird..lol


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 11:56 am

    Quoting  :

Yes I have learned the hard way that you have to be careful. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 11:58 am

    Quoting Piper3654K:
    Welcum back dear. Your rules are just fine. They're very similar to mine. If anyone doesn't like it, just send them along without even a response. You're worth the effort and don't ever sell yourself short or doubt it for a second.

    I've heard similar stories from other friends here and even had a couple of friends physically assaulted when they said no. You can't be too safe. It's shocking to me that some people act the way they do.

    As for the hair, sorry I didn't even notice. Personally I never get past your eyes in your pics.
Thank you Piper. I like your new profile pic. My rules is to make me feel safe. To me that is very important. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:00 pm

    Quoting CJDOU:
    Agree with all, except rule of no intimacy on first “date” , hey if there is chemistry why not, but I do respect your view and would never push myself on anyone, what a jerk that guy is!
I understand what you are saying if there is chemistry, however I have my rules for a reason. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:02 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    You are just beautiful to me .
    So sorry you met with a guy like that
    Respect is no longer
    He's the fool for loading his cool.
    You are write to walk away never to say hello again to him
    He has no right to say or want that at all.
    I'ld never do it to you or anyone I meet first or second time
    It takes time to know someone to be intermit with.

    Ope you have a better day alone XOXOXO
Yes it does. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:02 pm

    Quoting ec51257:
    Beautiful look and great rules.
Thank you sexy friend. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:03 pm

    Quoting Dtts43rt35:
    Your red hair suits you because it's so beautiful wonderful I'm your fan!
Thank you sexy friend. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:04 pm

Thank you. Gotta love Hottieville..lol... I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:06 pm

    Quoting Aden0069:
    Happy New Year Beautiful! You are always beautiful! Your rules are pretty standard, and no one should ask you to compromise them! Don't let the stupid pushy guys make a bad name for the rest of us! Most guys are pretty reasonable, or at least I would like to think so!
Thank you. Oh I won't. I know for a fact that great guys are on here. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:07 pm

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    Rules are rules. Yours were not to strict. Totally acceptable.
    The guy was a dickwad.
Yeah he was..lol . Oh well. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:10 pm

    Quoting HAMONMAN:

    We meet in a public place. We go dutch. I do not become intimate on the first meet.

    Do you think rules are too strict?


    No Sweet Hottie. Those are my rules as well.

    New hair ?
    Looks nice. I don't think you could ever look bad . . .

    ( PS I'm commenting for the sake of commenting, NOT to qualify for the contest as you were kind enough to award me points in a past recent contest. )
Thank you. You can still enter my contests. I have had people win more than once before. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to ya


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:11 pm

    Quoting j4theladies69:
    The guy is was being a jerk. You deserve better. You’re a beautiful woman.
Thank you. At least I found out his character early. That could have been a disaster. Lol.. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:12 pm

Thank you sexy friend.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:12 pm

    Quoting jtwrigleyville:
    You've always looked smoking hot, and you've never looked better.
Thank you jt. You always say the nicest things to me. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:14 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Young Lady, you be YOU, if he can't understand the simplest set of rules, kick him out without any hesitation .
Pretty much what I did. I do not tolerate rudeness. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you. That was very nice of you to say. I apologize for my late response. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes the internet is a crazy world..lol... I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:17 pm

    Quoting volunteerofd:
    Hot Mamamm, your rules are very good and safe for you and if they can't be followed by the guy, he isn't worthy of your time. Love your new look and that amazing smile that instantly warms a person. Here's to a Great NEW YEAR!

    post 4285888]
Thank you. Hope you have a fantastic year as well. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 12:19 pm

    Quoting fakufan:
    Wow, your pic is beautiful. Love your smile and eyes, hotmamamm. You set the right boundaries, hope you are ok after the jerk's outburst. Matching with someone is a hard patient road.
Thank you . Finding a match has been very difficult. Lol.. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:03 pm

Thank you sexy friend. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:04 pm

    Quoting reallyready46:
    No your rules are pretty much like my rules. Meet in public, no promises see what is going on first. This guy was an IDIOT and you smoked him out by not just hopping into his Car.
He was not kind...lol.. that is why I have rules. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/14/2020 1:06 pm

    Quoting justAmale55:
    I think your rules are perfect. I also like to meet first in a public place, chemistry and are they what they portrayed themselves to be, are two main reasons. If someone is not going to agree to that, they need to look elsewhere.
Sometimes I find that you have more chemistry online than in person. That is one of the reasons for my rules. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


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