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6 Things That Bug Me About AFF
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Great list 
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Yes it must seem at times as if this entire site has gone completely bonkers for some women judging by the posts I have read. Proper manners with a touch of humor are the best way forward if you want to make a good impression, seems like that memo was lost in translation.
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Excellent post. I agree with all of these but would add to it the enormous amount of fakes on here. The other day I got hit up out of the blue by a lady from Newark who was off for the day because of Columbus day and she was bored and wanted to hook up. Unfortunately I actually had to work, but after going back and forth a few times we settled on a place rough time frame and that we would work out an exact time later. She had to run but would check back later. Not hearing back that day she actually sent an apology the next morning. Then I tried to send her another message to ask if she wanted to reschedule and found that I could not because she had blocked me.... Go figure! She chased me, not the other way around.... weird! That's just one example of many where online everything sounds great but the closing in real life never materializes.
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1. Poor grammar. I completely agree with you about this. I know that some people who can write properly often use chat-speak abbreviations and other nonsense, and that's even more annoying than kids who don't understand that it looks illiterate. One of the many attractions of my wife is that she's intelligent, though I think her good character is most important. 2. Bad pictures. I love a good dick picture. My profile picture is getting kind of old, but I haven't changed much, and I'm not trying to find someone here, just read blogs, so I'm not misleading anyone. I did a cock self-portrait a long time ago, and it's a work of art. It's really difficult to get a great cock picture. I had to get the lighting right, get the camera aimed right, get the exposure sharp and neither under- or over-exposed. All that attention to photographic details is a giant distraction to keeping it really stiff. I didn't want to show off a semi-hard cock picture. I didn't want to show off a stiff and ready-to-go cock with a bad photograph. It took a few hours to get it completely the way I wanted it. In spite of the effort to get the cock picture exactly right, I generally don't share it any more, because most women don't like to see cock pictures anyway, and for those who do like them, the main reason to share a cock picture is as part of getting ready to share the actual cock. And unless my wife or I find a woman we're both interested in, and she's interested in both of us, my cock is not available for sharing. (But I suppose I can still share the picture by private request, if I can still find it.) 3. Men who greet me with "Hey, gorgeous". That's kind of funny. 4. Men who request a bunch of pictures. Especially naked ones. Some guys are picture collectors. Some guys like to look at pictures of women, particularly naked. (By "some", I mean "almost all, unless they're only interested in men".) It's nice to have lots of naked pictures of one's partner or partners. I'm glad my wife indulges me on that. 5. Not filling out your profile. For someone who is on the market, a solid profile seems like a necessity. It tells people whether they're looking for a hook-up, a continuing sex friend, a relationship partner, non-sexual friends (who would presumably be sex-positive if one became acquainted through here), or just on-line socializing. It says whether one is into kink or vanilla. And so forth. In short, I agree. 6. Messaging me with sex talk from the start. If I were on the market, I'd approve of sex talk from the start, but I'd still want to know more than how horny someone was. When I had a paid account, I read profiles to get a feel for what kind of message would be most likely to have positive results. But the numbers are against men, and even with good contact messages I didn't end up meeting anyone. I got close to meeting three times that I recall. One with a woman who seemed like relationship potential, but she ended up meeting someone else first, and they ended up together almost from the start. One with a woman who seemed like friend and sex-friend potential, but she backed out when I mentioned that I would likely be moving away before too long. One with a woman who seemed like a good hook-up, but I backed away when I figured out that she was looking for pay-to-play.
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