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Turn ons/Turn offs/Indifferents.
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Turn ons/Turn offs/Indifferents. Over the last week, I was looking at all the messages, IM greetings and chat room welcomes I received. I was able to categorize them into three areas, turn ons, turn offs and indifferent. These are just my observations and feelings. Others will feel differently. Turn ons: 1. A sense of humor. 2. A beautiful woman. All women are beautiful on the outside. It takes getting to know her to see if the inside matches the outside. 3. Confidence without arrogance. Stating how long you can last (“I can go for 4 hours”) or what you think you can do (“I will make you wet and quiver”) is arrogance and arrogance goes into the next category. Turn offs: 1. Crass statements (such as these actual received messages) – Are you playing with your pussy? Let’s fuck. Horny? Wanna peg me? These are things that would never be said to a person face to face (I sincerely hope). The anonymity of the internet allows you to show the real you. If you think these types of statements are acceptable, I want nothing to do with the real you. 2. Gold members that have access to profiles but don’t read them. They prove it by asking questions that are easily answered by doing the simple act of reading. (What are you looking for? Are you into younger men?) This is just lazy. Lazy = turn off. 3. What I call ‘the taking dick’. That is the IM message from a dick pic. It does not matter what the message is, if your profile picture is of your dick, you must think that is the best you have to offer. I have no interest in anyone that has that low opinion of themselves. 4. The ‘daddy’ thing. I don’t get it. In fact, it kind of creeps me out. Indifferent: Indifferent items are boring and hold no interest to me, so I don’t respond to them. 1. Single syllable greetings (such as these actual received messages) – Heyyyy Hi Chat? 2. Unimaginative, short statements that convey no information about the sender (such as these actual received messages) – Hey there Good morning Hi sexy Hi, how are you? I know most people will not read this, and the things I mentioned here will not stop. That is the way it is. I just felt like venting. That’s it for my observations for now. Again, this is just me. Everyone is different, so there are those that disagree with me. Viva la diferencia. That’s what makes life interesting. Have a great day! |
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Hi amybell, I agree with what you are saying above. I have never met or ever had any kind of interactions with you but you sound like a woman who has very clear ideas of what you want and are looking for, that in itself should turn most of these guys on!! Wanting to have intelligent yet playful conversations seem to be a bit difficult for some though sadly  I hope to cross paths someday with you and if I do, I dont want to come across as being unimaginative or or even worse, end up in your turn-off category. Hopefully you find some on here that do pique your interest and you enjoy their company while you can 
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1/8/2019 1:40 pm |
I think this post was amazing....very well written and I found myself agreeing with most of it...tbough I might have a slightly different take on a few things...but great lost and topic to dive intio...nice work
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Hi.. yes agree with most of what you have said.. I hate nothing more than someone sending a standard cut and paste message to me.. or when the first words are either one worders or straight to the sexual side. I have to disagree with the short statement stuff though.. first contact should be at least.. hi.. hows things?.. care for a chat.. have to start someowhere.. and before going into to much detail..you have to first establish contact..
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I like the unimaginative ....lol...greetings. plain Jane n simple here....so a " good morning , or a how ya doing " is what I expect from an initial IM. Some of those other greetings...ugh. I ask of them , " do you have any manners ". Yes...I agree this online communication allows for the cloak of invisibility and crassness to come out. .....and o em gee....you are right on about the dic pic profiles. Ya seen one ya seen em all. Geeze guys ! Give us a break please~~
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Another well-written, thought-provoking post! We love to gain these little insights into you/others. Thank you for sharing your perspective! We can relate to many of these. Sadly, we are guilty of some of those “indifferent” remarks over IM. Since only 10 to 15 percent of the women to whom we reach out respond to us, a quick “Hello. How are you?” feels like a good way to see if a woman is willing to engage in a conversation with us over IM, without spending too much time on those who aren’t or won’t. With that said, we are much more verbose when we choose to engage via message. We like to write a friendly greeting, reference some of her interests if she chose to share any on her profile, tell her about our passion for women, and wish her well. We agree ... all women have a natural beauty ... and we really enjoy engaging to uncover their internal beauty, as well! Have a great day!
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Nothing wrong with receiving a "hello" or "how are you"? As another person said, you have to start somewhere.
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