Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
Forgot password?
Blogs > Coeus1967 > Selfish Thoughts....

Inane Ramblings of the Morally Corrupt  

Coeus1967 57M
13 posts
2/12/2013 2:59 am
Inane Ramblings of the Morally Corrupt

If we look at things statistically my lack of breasts means that no one else will ever read this so it seems the perfect forum for the occasional rant.

My topic du jour? Infidelity. Why? Why not? With whom?

Let's start with what should be self evident. Give a man the opportunity to have sex with an attractive, intelligent and compliant woman with the guarantee that he would never be found out and he would have his head between a pair of warm thighs quicker than a proverbial rat up a drain pipe.

In general the male of the species spend a disproportionate amount of time, consciously or unconsciously, evaluating the possibilities around fucking women that are not his wife / partner / significant other. While social attitudes might make him hide his intentions it doesn't stop him at least considering the possibilities.

This isn't however the same as infidelity. It simply reflects the basic<b> carnal desire </font></b>we are all burdened with alongside testicles and a penis. Infidelity is much subtler. It is the ultimate expression of having your cake and eating it.

Infidelity implies two things - firstly moving from thought to action. A typical man will admire, imagine and often regret. Until he acts, engages and attempts then he is not being unfaithful.

I am explicitly and unashamedly in the second camp. I have rationalised my behaviour and understand exactly what I do and why. In no longer feel guilt and, importantly, I no longer fear rejection or exposure. This changes the dynamic completely and makes the second important thing about infidelity relevant - itrue infidelity is a series of recurring events not just a quick, one off expression of sexual desire.

When I was younger and more stupid I did fuck anything that moved. This was stupid for a couple of reasons.

#1 - engaging the body without the mind can be easily achieved with the help of your right hand. Taking the risks involved with being unfaithful simply so that you don't have to wipe things up afterwards is a silly risk to take.

#2 - you end up fucking the wrong women. If you are going to take (and manage) the risks involved surely you should be picking a partner that is worth that risk? Finding someone drunk enough to fuck you within a short period of meeting you isn't difficult but, in general, you get out of things what you put in. Taking some time, some care and giving both the process and the person some thought tends to lead to better, longer term results that both make the risks involved worthwhile and provide the basis and confidence to move on when the time is right.

So, top tips from a serial adulterer:

1. No one night stands - the risk / reward isn't worth it.
2. Find a friend you like to fuck - it will be bteer and safer in the long term
3. Always be (brutally) honest with your co-conspitator- lie and you will be found out. things will get messy and you will be the one to suffer in the long term
4. Punch above your weight - if you are confident enough to be unfaithful in the first place you will be able to attract more attractive women who, in long term, are less likely to get caught up in a relationship fixation
5. ALWAYS, ALWAYS be safe - sexually and emotionally.
6. Keep the necessary lies (to your partner) simple - if you get too complex you will confuse yourself and will get caught.

Become a member to create a blog