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How many no's does it take?
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How many no's does it take? |
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In real life - I'm in sales... lol and Zig is an asshole... lol... So three.... 😁 In matters of the heart... One. No time for games or some bullshit chase. There are too many opportunities out there. And if a woman doesn't see a possibility with me? No worries... 🌹🍷🍷😎 Zig... you made me laugh. That guy is a slightly overrated tool.... and my boss's idol. lol 😂 😮 But... he was right about - THREE! 👍 ❗❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Most times just one. If I see the person around 3 or 4 months later I might drop them a line and see if their interest have changed..
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I think three with respect, but one has to follow his heart. You never know only one more might be the winner. Just be respectful and realistic about it.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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3/5/2020 2:10 pm |
Just once everybody. I cannot believe the number of rude people I’ve came across in the short time I’ve been doing my search. I am a crossdresser and really thought that we were here to support each other. But when you say hi to someone that just looked at your profile and won’t respond by saying at least a “no” what else would you call it but rude
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i have tried with one gentleman on a few times and needless to say he is a standard member so i sent him a message on IM and to his private mailbox he set up but nothing . I finally gave up after 3 times. With my heart it just takes only once. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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3/5/2020 2:44 pm |
Its difficult to give up with a beautiful lady like you, but no means no. X
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Curious if the answers differ based on what gender you are. I find males here have hard time accepting no.
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3/5/2020 2:56 pm |
If given a good reason as to no, then I stop
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3/5/2020 3:07 pm |
How many no's does it usually take?
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1 is it for me, too many other options to keep hearing no.
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Maybe if the woman in question is vague about her "no" I will probe a little more. Otherwise, I don't waste time with someone who would not want to get to know and be with me.
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3/5/2020 3:54 pm |
Once is enough. Don’t believe in being pushy. Offer to be friends and let it go
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Once should be enough unless there is a need to reword the request to clarify things. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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After I give one no, unless the second request comes with a compelling sales pitch, I just ignore, or if grossly obnoxious...block.
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After I give one no, unless the second request comes with a compelling sales pitch, I just ignore, or if grossly obnoxious...block.
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I hear no just once and I'm done, some ppl never heard of the word.
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If the Treasure is Pleasure and from a Realistic source, I may never give up because often a great deal of time is necessary to present my case. I choose to make requests after adequate consideration. Likewise, I expect that offers are not accepted without rational cause! 
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3/5/2020 6:19 pm |
One no is plenty. If she was nice about it then maybe we can chat again without meeting. If she was rude about it then I just block her so I never make the mistake of trying to say hello again.
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Usually once is enough. Sometimes 2 after a short period of time. Give the woman time to think about her answer.
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One then move on - let's not waste each others time....
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Maybe if the woman in question is vague about her "no" I will probe a little more. Otherwise, I don't waste time with someone who would not want to get to know and be with me. Sometimes I say no for logistical reasons like distance or availability, and tell the person that.... if those things change I might think differently if that person reaches out again. Sometimes it's because my schedule is ridiculously busy, or there's a medical reason like driving-foot surgery that limits my known availability that I say no. But I make it clear what the reason is. I try to be clear if I say no when a person doesn't fit what I'm seeking. THOSE folks I don't want to hear from again, but if they do fit what I'm seeking, sometimes that no can be a "not right now, but I won't mind if you check back respectfully later."
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3/6/2020 10:56 am |
I’m old enough and mature enough to to accept no the first time BUT what is aggravating is the vast majority who simply ignore without even trying to find out if I’m worth their time. NO I can handle but rudeness is something entirely different, just tell me no thank you were you not taught any manners at all?
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I’m old enough and mature enough to to accept no the first time BUT what is aggravating is the vast majority who simply ignore without even trying to find out if I’m worth their time. NO I can handle but rudeness is something entirely different, just tell me no thank you were you not taught any manners at all?
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Zig Ziglar may be outdated as even in sales they say 6-7 no's before you get to yes. But this isn't about sales or sex for that matter. My time is precious. Say no and I'm gone. But then again, I never played the cat-n-mouse game with women either. However, if you were forced to reach out to men, if that was your only expectation and chance of talking or meeting someone. How would you develop around the word 'no'? Try to flip the table. Women rarely are in the same position.
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3/8/2020 8:44 pm |
I would be thrilled . . .well would have been thrilled back when I could send messages . .to have received a polite "Thanks but not for me." For the most part I got nothing at all back. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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