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Would you really?  

rm_Red3202010 44F
40 posts
8/10/2011 6:10 pm
Would you really?

I realize this is a site that is geared towards people finding each other for the sole purpose of hooking up, but in the year or so I've been on here, the way that I've been approached by many men have seriously been lacking in couthe.

Here are a few examples of the opening lines I've been presented with in emails and on i.m.:
Wanna watch me stroke?
How big are your breasts? (it says it on my profile)
Are you shaved?
I'd love to watch you lick my wife
Do you like anal?
What's the biggest you've ever had?
and last but not least: Wanna hook up?

Again, I realize this is not exactly and that the majority of us are here to find some to bump uglies with, BUT..........would you walk up to a woman in a bar or on the street and say any of these things to her?

No. Of course not. Unless you have an affinity for pepper spray and being kicked in the crotch, you probably do not say these things to women verbally to their faces. You have to talk about other things first and build a rapport, let her know you're not a complete<b> deviant </font></b>before popping any of these types of questions to her.

So.......basically guys, what I'm trying to say is, if you expect to get anywhere with me, try approaching me like a human being first, and a piece of ass 2nd. It'll get you much further, trust me

cabo_lover 46M  
6 posts
8/12/2011 7:58 am

 I agree a little couthe is need. I treat women on this site the same as if I was to meet them face to face in a bar. Just because a woman is on here doesn't mean that she is a sure thing... it just means they are looking for the same thing.

Hit me up sometime if you'd like to chat and see if there is a connection. you can find me on yeah who msgr my scrn name is wabo.cabo.
would love to hear from you.


tiffanddave 44M/42F
1 post
8/15/2011 7:50 am

 My girl wants to try some fun with another girl and i just want watch


rm_Red3202010 44F
5 posts
8/15/2011 10:49 am

 Perfect example of what not to say. I have it written all over my profile that I am NOT interested in couples yet you come at me with that. Brilliant!!


moblack627 32M

8/18/2011 6:00 pm

 @russell397 heh


lookin4agreatfit 62M
Ask me for a photo
2 posts
8/28/2011 6:45 pm

 Hmmm....intelligent conversation?? Drinks in a nice quiet bar? Eyes fluttering as a moment lingers? Are these some of the things you are interested in? There are a few gents still out there!


rm_Red3202010 44F
5 posts
8/29/2011 9:24 pm

 yes, I am, but I'm not going to be interested in doing it with someone that much older than me. Nice thought though


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