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Anybody know the cure for Cliques?
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Anybody know the cure for Cliques? Cliques or (clicks) are often the biggest downside of going to swinger clubs, so many people who already know each other grouping up and making newbies feel alone and un-welcomed. some of the Braver Newbies may be able to infiltrate one of these pack but the Alpha leader always seems to bring the herd closer together to fend off any un-welcomed predators We went to a swingers party for Halloween. We felt very welcomed by the hostess (which is her job and we thank her) but after we were thrown out into the Serengeti of sexed up libidos. We ended up grazing around with no real directions. Found a few people fun enough to hang with but when the party died down and people started to pair off and go to their rooms. The entire group we were talking to left to one room and we weren't invited. So, we bounced back and got to talking to a few other ppl who still ended up pairing off like a pornographic version of Noah's Arc. We felt like the 3-legged gazelle God didn't find fit enough to mate off before the sex storm's flood washed over us. Last call came and went and we retired to our rooms together but pondering on if we are really unfuckable or if we didn't try hard enough. But those Cliques are tough and exclusive, and maybe swinger parties are not fit for us. We are pretty shy people and not the " hey, nice tits. Let's Fuck!" type So does anybody have a cure???? |
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i can accept that, i am pretty hard to read and not a big flirty personality it could be my problem, except for the people we made out with and they just said "thanks, have a great night" lol we actually smelled ourselves to make sure we didn't reek! lol
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11/1/2010 8:44 am |
sounds like a typical head game. the true cure is quarantine. just stay away from them & find a new group who are more mature & cool, less head games.
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sounds like a typical head game. the true cure is quarantine. just stay away from them & find a new group who are more mature & cool, less head games.
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yeah unfortunately some people just CANT grow up...
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we arent from fl but we been swinging in 3 different states and only been here the last 3 years but we always see the the groups you are talking about. Mostly the skinny types stick together and fight off the fat girls.... like me. but thier men folks always seem to hit on me/us. no cure that we know of but just go out and have fun, dont let the few take away the fun as in time you will find the right party to be at.
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11/2/2010 8:35 am |
unfortunately, everything in life is much like high school. I've heard about groups like you experienced, and I've heard about groups where you pick & choose who you like & everyone is happy you joined. Keep trying if you enjoy this. The people who act like high school never grow out of it. They are insecure and will always be. Swinging should not be a head game, it should be mature people. kisses
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So many mature people act more juvenile than ME who is half their age. I'm starting to think maybe this is not the atomosphere i want to be around. But everyone tells us it the best way to meet people and this website kinda sucks unless you like talking to fakes.
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