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Blogs > 49AK > Out of the Ordinary

Medium Rare, and Wet.  

49AK 62M
646 posts
3/14/2009 6:16 pm

Last Read:
3/16/2009 4:04 pm
Medium Rare, and Wet.

My partner is a regular in an online community known as "Second Life" (S. Explaining what "Second Life" is is beyond what I would tend to go into here... But suffice to say that among the things one can do there are distinctly adult activities.

So today, my partner and I were out to lunch, and she told me that today, March 14, was "Steak and a Blowjob" day in SL. This is a newly-created holiday... the premise being that men needed a male-centered equivalent to Valentine's day.

So far, I am sold.

Tell the truth - Valentine's day is seventy-five percent about what a guy does for his beloved, and twenty-five percent about what she does to show her appreciation, isn't it? I mean, if a guy forgets (or neglects) Valentine's Day, he's stressed his relationship... But there is no quid pro quo - roses and candy, or dinner, or whatever... doesn't guarantee anything for him.

Seems a little one-sided.

My friend NascarFox has written a couple blogs recently about the gender roles related to paying for dates ([post 1857160] and [post 1858012]), and while we're not talking about exactly the same thing, there is definitely the sense that the men at least start the heavy lifting in most cases, if not bear most of the burden in terms of making a date work in a logistic sense. A lot of dates don't happen if the guy doesn't ask, and many expect the man to pay - and I am not saying anything is wrong with that... but I am pointing out that for a lot of people, there is the "what the man does" part and the "what the woman does" part.

Now I can tell that at least some of my regular readers are commenting to themselves. They're saying, "Self, that 49 is such a hypocrite... he doesn't observe Valentine's Day, or any other pseudo-holiday."

You're right. I don't.

But not because I think the sentiment is not valid... But because I think if you care about someone, you shouldn't need some commercial calendar event to compel you to express that to your partner.

And you know... I don't really mind that men have to supply a lot of the activation energy to get things going in a relationship (and let me be clear... I don't mean that they are always the initiators... just more often than not).

But far be it from me to get in the way of "Steak and a Blowjob" day.

How do women prepare for Valentine's Day? Perhaps they go out and get a new outfit, or perhaps a nice new fragrance or a new doo... just so they can look good for their man on that special day.

What did I do to prepare for "Steak and a Blowjob" day?

I got propane for the barbecue.

firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
3/14/2009 6:30 pm

 I would've suggested buying an apron with a convenient hole cut in it.
The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
3/16/2009 8:06 am

 I've never had a boyfriend when Valentine's came around. During my marriage, if anything were done, I did it, not him. He got me a card once or twice. He didn't much believe in celebrating anything. For the last 15 years, he wouldn't have wanted to celebrate BJ and steak day either. Not that he didn't like steak, but it was a chore to get him to work the grill. He didn't much like bj's or anything to do with sex either.


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