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No Room For Cruelty  

fitamanda 48T
29 posts
7/3/2010 4:13 pm

Last Read:
11/14/2011 9:03 pm

No Room For Cruelty


Hi Everyone! I am Amanda. I am a TS. I am proud of what I am.
I learned something today, that should've been obvious, but I guess I tried to pretend it was too rare for me to experience.
I'm pretty sure that EVERYONE that has joined this website, has joined it for sexual pursuit. Be it, to hook-up, to fantasize, cyber-sex, experimentation, BDSM, gay, bi straight, voyeurism, exhibitionism, curiosity, or in my case being a T-girl.
But I also assumed no one joined this site to be cruel, or create havoc.
These people need to be removed. From the planet, as far as I'm concerned.
Your "sexual freedom" is totally yours. And except for , and pedophiles, it's no one else's business to say whether your preference is right or wrong.
I have friends from every persuasion of sexuality. Every race, every gender, all ages.
Most everyone that I've corresponded with here has been congenial. We may not be compatible, sexually, but we are not cruel to each other. We simply go our separate ways in such instances.
So why am I writing this?
I have a dear friend that is currently going through a personal ordeal. The situation, is very personal and extremely important to her. Therefore it is also important to me. She is my friend, and my mentor, and I love her like a sister.
She posted a small dialogue on our group site, basically outlining what she is going through, and it saddened me.
But some IDIOT (not part of our group) replied that it was "FUNNY". !?!
These are the people we do not need here, no matter what your persuasion is. This man is here, strictly because he cannot get any satisfaction in the REAL WORLD, so he "hides" behind the internet, and feels "safe", because he's untouchable. Well, mindless, spineless, needle-dicked idiots ARE untouchable, because there's nothing redeeming about them. The only reason he is on this site, is because, even his own computer won't "go down" on him.
So I'm asking everyone on this site to let these people know, (if you run into one) that they are not welcome here.
Maybe I'm out of line, but this is a site designed for enjoyment, not cruelty.
Bullies are generally weak. Weak minded, weak willed, weak physically. rarely does a bully pick on someone bigger than themselves. They seek power through "easy" conquests, and generally hide, when confronted. They are usually poorly educated, friendless, and offer nothing substantial to society as a whole. These are the wife beaters, the beaters, the animal beaters, the usually, sexually inept people in our world. They shoot internet "bullets" on the web, then go back to their feeble little lives, look in the mirror, pat themselves on the back, and begin weeping, because they've just realized that they are out of hand lotion, so they don't have a date tonight.
If you read my profile you will see, that I am not a weak person, nor a crybaby.
But creeps like this, have no place here.
His post/reply was removed, I'm assuming, by my friend who wrote the initial post.
It's a good thing. I really wanted to go to this guys profile, and call him out.
Sorry if I sound a bit "neanderthal" about this, but ridiculing people's emotions, during a time of extreme stress, can be dangerous.
And my friend, the one who is going through this hard time, needs support, and compassion, not idiocy.
This IS PASSION.COM, but if your passion is to destroy someone else. Get lost.
If you are confronted by one of these idiots, "flag" them as abusive. Together we can keep this site as it is intended to be. A place to find enjoyment. But if your idea of enjoyment is cruelty, you will find you have no place here.
Passionately an Compassionately-Amanda Strong-

orlandofun7 58M
185 posts
5/16/2017 9:54 am

Amanda hope one day we can meet. Just have this feeling you would be incredible to have a close relationship with.
Sincerely,
Fred

Fred


SexyLexi4Fun4 61M
1 post
11/10/2011 5:19 pm

This life, unfortunately, is filled with cruel and insensitive people. In my opinion one is too many. They show us the other side we choose not to add to. I like to think I add sensitivity and kindness to all peoples lives. I have decided this is all that I can do. Allowing those who don't add kindness, to discourage or upset me, takes from the serenity of my world. To get involved in their misery with negativity or a fight only perpetuates the unpleasant stench that they create. While I have become wary of most people, I try to remain loving and with an open heart. Peace be with you and yours, and may pleasant people and things surround your days.
Joseph


neverenough342 56M

12/16/2010 1:33 pm

Ya most on here dont answer emails even when they flirt, and u take time to say hello, well this is the world now lol,
Amanda, thanks soo much for ur welcome to diversi t group, I am one that feels you write i wana write to say thanks thats just the old school way i guess a dying breed lol. Thanks and i would love to stock your stocking's


67coyboy 57M
496 posts
11/16/2010 12:03 am

thumbs up to you


whywaitfor69 75M

8/19/2010 3:28 am

Amen,Amanda! My Bible says I should pray for and do good to those who hurt me but I would rather beat the living shit out of them then dress their wounds.


Siren_dipity 60F
829 posts
7/24/2010 1:33 pm

I'm sorry your friend and others on here have experienced the small minded individuals that still reside on this little planet of ours..but hopefully, you'll find in the long run most people are kind and openminded on here..the rest can take a flying fuck ..stay strong (no pun intended) girl


sman2k.01 51M
3151 posts
7/3/2010 10:56 pm

I joined this site partly for hook ups, more just out of curiosity. And I've found a few crule people here who were looking for casual victims to torment to pacify their own demons, too. But I've found a lot more really nice people who, regardless of the whole sex or no sex hookup thing are really worth talking to, learning from, and befriending. It turns out most people are really pretty decent when you get to know them. I know it's hard to keep that in perspective when you have one of the low life's in your face, but remember, the asshole's are the exception, not the rule.


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