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fitamanda 48T
29 posts
6/22/2009 11:42 pm

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12/25/2010 12:23 pm

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Okay, I realize many of you on this site, don't want to show your face. Either for personal, or professional reasons. But even some of the body shots are a bit fuzzy, and not well lit. This isn't rocket science.
I used to do photography, (black and white), and I have a degree in Commercial Art, so here are some simple hints for you, if you wish.
Almost all, if not all new digital cameras have a timer on them. Some can even take multiple shots, still on a timer.
Most, again have 'editing ' tools on them. Other than scanning, or sending through a cell phone, I'm assuming that most of you download your photos, to your computer, in order to present them on this site. Right?
This leads to the assumption, that you also own a computer.
Most computers have a program, whether it be, Photoshop, Illustrator, or with Macs, I-photo. These programs also have editing capabilities. You can convert to black and white, sepia, or enhance the color, brightness, contrast , or 'noise', (this 'smooth's out any blemishes or imperfections).
Now, you can put the camera on any flat surface, at any height, although a tripod can be bought for very little money nowadays. All cameras have a threaded hole for tripods.
Place an object, say a ball, where you want the center of attention to be. Use a flash in low light, but be careful not to use a 'low-light- mode without the flash, because if you move, the photo will come out blurry and dark. This setting slows down the shutter speed to allow more natural light to enter the camera, but movement is out of the question. You will look like "The Flash". (Hee-Hee)
Take several photos of the same pose, or random poses, as they will not all be what you want. Try to make sure that there isn't a pole, or bush, or something the same color behind you, as parts of you will disappear, or you will look like you have a tree growing out of your head, or between your legs. Be aware of your surroundings. If you are posing in front of a mirror, or a window, make sure the camera is diagonal to the reflective surface. Not directly in front of it. This will cause a 'back-flash'. Move the camera to one side or the other, or up or down.
You can now, most likely, edit, crop, enhance, the photos on your camera.
Or you can now download the photos to you computer, and use you photo program to do the editing. What you don't like, simply move to trash, then empty trash. This takes some time and effort, but the people looking for you don't want to take the time and effort to discern your photos. (What the heck is that?, A shadow? A dog? A vase?) So weigh the outcomes here folks.
I think if you really want to attract someone on this site, you should at least make this simple effort. I believe you will find your contact results are much better.
And remember...SMILE! (if your face is showing), unless, of course, you are trying to project dominance, or seriousness.
Maybe you all already know this and simply don't care.
Or maybe, this will help some of you find what you're seeking.
Of course, the other option is to get a friend to photograph you or hire a professional.
If you have the money, and the gumption, go for it.
'Hope this helps some of you.
Keep smiling, and laugh daily-Amanda-

rm_robson372009 55M
17 posts
12/20/2010 10:23 pm

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stevenjosepht 78M
3726 posts
5/14/2010 7:50 pm

You responded almost a year later. Glad your not one to rush into things. I hope to God we don't see a picture of your penis. Sorry, that doesn't work for me--woman with penis. You are right about the photos. In this day and age of cheap digital cameras, cell phone cameras, and web cameras, there's really no need for a bad photo. But it is a difficult task to get a picture of oneself--you'd think there was nothing to it. Anyhoo, many thanks for your response, I truly appreciate it. Looking back, I don't believe I wrote what I wrote. Steven


hornyholly1971 53T
2 posts
5/1/2010 12:25 am

Hi Amanda first let me say i think you look amazing and even though i am older than you i find your blog an insperation, i look forward to reading more of your posts as i am relatively new to the scene as far as coming out and admiting who i am and how i feel and i can only hope that one day i will look as good as you and some of our other sisters on this site.


fitamanda replies on 5/13/2010 10:50 pm:
Hi Holly, thanks for your compliments. I write a lot on a group site, called T.-G.I.R.L.S. I joined it last year, and I now have over 150 posts. But the 'girls' there have helped me immensely. So you might take a look there, and join up. It's like a big family. It's very cool.
And BTW, your pic looks great!
Hugs-Amanda-

fitamanda 48T
16 posts
6/23/2009 12:46 am

I meant to say, "I never said if you choose to show your face or bod", I was just talking about the quality of the photos.


fitamanda 48T
16 posts
6/23/2009 12:43 am

Some people aren't just interested in "bods". No one is perfect. If they think they are, that's the biggest imperfection. But pride and confidence, is very attractive. Do what makes you happy, and you will be happy. By the way, I never said anything about showing your face. I was just writing about the quality of the photos. Even a cum shot can be attractive, in the right light, and angle. I know, I've done it.
Stay happy man, give 'em what they want.
Kudos-Amanda-


stevenjosepht 78M
3726 posts
6/23/2009 12:33 am

Personally, If I had a million dollar bod, I want to advertise. As it is its only a buck fifty bod, but still someone might enjoy looking at my dick, my balls. I know I enjoy looking at naked men and I presume some women, some men might enjoy looking at me naked. I might not have that million dollar bod, but it is attractive none-the-less. When I get around to getting my picture taken, it will be a shot of my hardon, a shot of cum on my belly. And who knows what else I can muster up. I would like a female to photo me to add to the erotic tinge.


fitamanda replies on 5/13/2010 10:47 pm:
Hi Steven!, Again I'm not talking about bods or faces or anything about people personally. I'm talking about the quality of the photo. I've had people send me pics that are so fuzzy, I can't tell if it's upside-down or right side up.
My basic point was that with todays cameras, even the cheaper ones, (like I have), or cell phones, it's not a big task to get a clear pic. I also realize that some people may want the out of focus look for artistic or personal reasons.
Whatever you're doing, if it works, don't fix it.
I wish you the best of luck and success on this site and in your life.
And on a rather personal note. You're luckier than me. My face is a lot better looking than my penis. If I just took pics of my penis, I'd be very lonely. LOL
Have fun man!
-Amanda-

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