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Trimmed or shaved?  

marysia4u 68F
12968 posts
3/14/2015 5:03 pm
Trimmed or shaved?



For goodness sake...............does it really matter, is it a deal breaker?
This question is asked at least once a week on the advice line.

I would rather be with a man who has a brain between his ears, someone I can have a good conversation with and who can make me laugh.

The thought doesn't even enter my head if he is trimmed or shaven.

To some it is very important. How sad that a bit of hair means more than the person on a whole.
rm_birdo1952 71M
2 posts
3/14/2015 5:17 pm

 I couldn't agree with you more. For me I look at the personality and if there is chemistry then that is a bonus.


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
3/14/2015 5:20 pm

 That does sound silly to me.
This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/14/2015 5:40 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank you for popping into my blog.

And thank you for telling me how it all started, I had no idea.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
3/14/2015 5:41 pm

 Then you are one in a million.Did I say a million or is that the men to
women ratio?It would have been better to have said one of a kind.
Since that's always the case.Yes!It was an extemporaneous thought.
Using more than all the road!


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/14/2015 5:43 pm
    Quoting rm_birdo1952:
    I couldn't agree with you more. For me I look at the personality and if there is chemistry then that is a bonus.
Thanks for popping in.

If there's no personality and chemistry, then it's a quick coffee and on my way.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/14/2015 5:49 pm
    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Then you are one in a million.Did I say a million or is that the men to
    women ratio?It would have been better to have said one of a kind.
    Since that's always the case.Yes!It was an extemporaneous thought.
Thanks for popping in.

I'm sure there are lots of females that think along the same lines as me.

Maybe I'm one of a kind in different ways.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/14/2015 7:51 pm
    Quoting mflater1:
    That does sound silly to me.
I think it's silly too, but it means a lot to some people.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/14/2015 7:55 pm
    Quoting apollorising2021:
    The hair is fallen slowly from my head,
    So I don't mind to seeing hair during a spread!

    If shaven I like, and if wild so much the better,
    Then you don't have to nit for me a Willie sweater!


So glad I won't have to knit you a willie sweater.

I've looked at heaps of patterns, but not been able to work them out. Pretty good at knitting beanies though.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/15/2015 2:04 am
    Quoting  :
Hairy slippers must fall into the same category as wearing socks while naked.


sexysixties2 106F
Ask me for a photo
39750 posts
3/15/2015 5:28 am

 The last thing I want to know about a man is whether he manscapes or not....I like to know a lot about him first before I ever met that part of him!!!
"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


danceswithtrees 64M
2425 posts
3/15/2015 6:19 am

 no shave for me
merely a trim
peter no like
a razor near him..

i remember a conversation about this topic at a social gathering and a friend gave her take on the subject..."some men like to shave cause with some background shubbery removed, the equipment looks bigger...and you know how most men are about the size of their willie...

love that cartoon..


rm_srainier2 66M
751 posts
3/15/2015 12:13 pm

 It's not that important if you have an affinity for the person. It is a consideration. I keep my balls smooth with " nair" as a request. I have denied a request to completely shave. I do like the tactile feel with my mouth if she is smooth around her lips or neatly trimed.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/15/2015 1:50 pm
    Quoting danceswithtrees:
    no shave for me
    merely a trim
    peter no like
    a razor near him..

    i remember a conversation about this topic at a social gathering and a friend gave her take on the subject..."some men like to shave cause with some background shubbery removed, the equipment looks bigger...and you know how most men are about the size of their willie...

    love that cartoon..
As usual, your ditty made me smile.

I've also heard about men shaving to make their manhood look bigger. I'm not about to take before and after photos to see if the size magically changes.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/15/2015 1:53 pm
    Quoting rm_srainier2:
    It's not that important if you have an affinity for the person. It is a consideration. I keep my balls smooth with " nair" as a request. I have denied a request to completely shave. I do like the tactile feel with my mouth if she is smooth around her lips or neatly trimed.
Thanks for popping in.

Good for you in deciding how you want to be.

It's not a deal breaker for me, but a trim is nice, as I trim so it's not a Forrest for the man to fight through.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/15/2015 6:17 pm
    Quoting sexysixties2:
    The last thing I want to know about a man is whether he manscapes or not....I like to know a lot about him first before I ever met that part of him!!!
I too want to get to know the man first. If there is no chemistry, then it doesn't matter what he has down bellow.


SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
3/15/2015 7:11 pm

 Well all I can say is that if you had posted this in blog just 25 or perhaps 30 years ago, everyone would have been asking what the bloody hell you are talking about.

I mean wouldn't a debate about beards and moustaches make more sense?

And since I noticed my hairline receding in recent years, is it time to invest in a toupe?
Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/15/2015 9:45 pm
    Quoting SirTeezalot:
    Well all I can say is that if you had posted this in blog just 25 or perhaps 30 years ago, everyone would have been asking what the bloody hell you are talking about.

    I mean wouldn't a debate about beards and moustaches make more sense?

    And since I noticed my hairline receding in recent years, is it time to invest in a toupe?
No, no,no. A Knight would never stoop so low in getting a toupee.

Just imagine taking your helmet off and the hair coming off with it.
Better to go bald and look the part.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/17/2015 1:21 pm
    Quoting  :
I guess by the time you got to the cartoon, it became clear.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
3/19/2015 4:02 am

 So sorry to hear about the broken heart, I hope it feels a little better soon. I know it is the worst feeling in the world, and no one can ever remember just how bad it is except while it is happening to them.

Meanwhile, yes, people do ask the shaved or not question a lot don't they. Personally I think the answer should be pretty much how you were thinking: "if it matters you aren't going to find out."

But I guess everyone is entitled to their preferences.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/19/2015 1:48 pm
    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    So sorry to hear about the broken heart, I hope it feels a little better soon. I know it is the worst feeling in the world, and no one can ever remember just how bad it is except while it is happening to them.

    Meanwhile, yes, people do ask the shaved or not question a lot don't they. Personally I think the answer should be pretty much how you were thinking: "if it matters you aren't going to find out."

    But I guess everyone is entitled to their preferences.
The heart is taking it's time to heal, just have to take each day as it comes.

Must be a record................. not seen that question asked this week on the advice line, but then again, not had a look this morning.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/20/2015 3:50 pm
    Quoting apollorising2021:
    The people of the United States love "Bush"! We have elected two Bushes in less than 20 years! I may vote for a third Bush in 2016 if he runs for President!


Thanks for the laugh.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/29/2015 10:21 pm
    Quoting apollorising2021:
    The people of the United States love "Bush"! We have elected two Bushes in less than 20 years! I may vote for a third Bush in 2016 if he runs for President!


Very well done.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
3/29/2015 10:24 pm
    Quoting  :
Thanks for popping in.

Nothing wrong with a little hair down there.

I've not been with a man who hasn't had hair, so don't know what my reaction will be if I do come across one.


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