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Couples having 3somes  

petemcgee81111 39M
2 posts
8/26/2008 3:43 pm
Couples having 3somes
I think couples having 3somes is hot, but I'm just curious how exactly a guy would bring up this subject with his girlfriend/wife.

Is there anybody who can share their experience of how they brought up this topic and what type of reaction you got. If you share something try to include how long you knew the person before bringing up 3somes topic. Also, feel free to share your feelings about what makes a good or bad mfm experience.

I was thinking maybe getting your girlfriend/wife to watch porn with you would be a good first step. Then you could watch some 3some scenes at some point and say something like "that looks like fun" and see how she reacts.

Thanks for your responses.
TnWitchyWoman 63F
6843 posts
8/26/2008 4:53 pm

 Ours started with a conversation of my best friend, who was a guy, sitting around talking. With me all conversations tend to gravitate towards sex eventually and this one started with "Is there ever anything you were offered that you didn't do that you wish you had?" The guys had pretty tame answers, like an individual girl they wished they had the nerve to have sex with but when it came my turn I said, "When I was in high school I was offered a threesome with two guys who were best friends and great friends of mine." I was too young, and that was way out of my "kink field" at that age. I was also afraid it would mess up all our friendships and it wasn't something I wanted getting around school either...so I said no. But all my life I'd wondered what I'd passed up. My husband and my best friend looked at each other like they'd planned the entire conversation and both piped up with "It could still happen!" I laughed at their ass. Mostly because of the same things that scared me as a kid but on a MUCH bigger scale. It's a dangerous thing to invite a third into your marriage. With two kids you have a lot to lose not to mention a husband AND a best friend if things go wrong. And things did go wrong, but fortunately we all cared a LOT for the other people and we worked things though. In the end I had a husband and an "other husband" for twelve years until the "other" died. I still miss him more than I'd miss breathing but I know how fortunate we all were. We had many friends who had threesomes or open marriages who are no longer together.


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