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vasectomy!!!  

wickedcat2006 49F  
725 posts
4/25/2019 8:28 am
vasectomy!!!


At this age in our life, after having 3 or the number of you desire. Using birth controls and condoms will ruin our excellent sex life. The side effects of the birth control and the cost is not reasonable. The cost of raising another at this stage of our lives is not desirable . Is it fair to ask your husband/boyfriend get a vasectomy?

NeedUBadly001 54M
51 posts
4/25/2019 8:58 am

In my opinion nothing wrong with that, I would if I was with you and you asked me.


me_lonely37 54M

4/25/2019 9:43 am

nothing wrong


nicebuttocks1950 74M
330 posts
4/25/2019 9:52 am

I already had one, Care to test the waters???


ltrskr 75M

4/25/2019 10:40 am

I would say Yes to ask husband, but a boyfriend, that should be his choice!
If he says no and u can't live with that then move on!


ltrskr 75M

4/25/2019 10:42 am

If u feel that strongly, and I can understand that, then u get fixed!
It's ur decision, not his.


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
4/25/2019 12:37 pm

Yes, having a discussion about it would be a good idea.


SoGent12017 63M

4/25/2019 1:02 pm

Yes it is fair and reasonable and should not be a bid deal at all of him.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/25/2019 4:25 pm

Using birth controls and condoms will ruin our excellent sex life. ... "Ruin"? ... LOL..No it won't. Erectile dysfunction and marriage, ruins an excellent sex life.

Is it fair to ask your husband get a vasectomy? .... Fair to ask him anything, but whether he agrees to that, is a different matter. Maybe he already got one without telling you?

Is it fair to ask your boyfriend get a vasectomy? .... LOL .. fucking hell no!! This bf/gf situation may only last a couple years, maybe less , maybe a bit more. ...So no, it isn't fair.

Husband or boyfriend....go buy some condoms and maybe some spermicide. Condoms won't ruin your sex life. Spermicide won't ruin your sex life.... unless you mistake it for whipping cream.


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
4/26/2019 6:40 am

Hey Darlin,
..........I have a strict policy,........I don’t get Any operations unless it Life or death,.........Besides, with the immensity of chemicals that I in jest it makes sedating me difficult,.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
4/27/2019 3:38 pm

I don't know where you got this crew answering you . Not much of a man who wouldn't do such a small thing for his woman's health in my way of thinking ..


seingalt23 59M
5565 posts
5/8/2019 12:47 pm

I did it for my girlfriend´s health and our relationship some years ago.

My children are adult, no plan on my side to have more - so it was an easy decision for me.

Giacomo


Lonely16842 59M
883 posts
3/27/2020 7:08 am

There's no harm in asking..... I'm already done so not an issue for me any more


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