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Is Everyone Into Kink Except Me?
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Is Everyone Into Kink Except Me? i've been here a looong time and have never seen so many men's profiles who are looking for a kinky woman. They want to spank, play bondage games and of course, fuck analy (or is it anally?). I am far from a prude. I'm very adventurous, open minded, and have had, and hope to have multiple adventures of a sexual nature, but I'm not into being dominated or have pain inflicted on me or inflict it on anyone else. Have to wonder if all these men who want kink have actually exoerienced it and want more of it, or have seen it in porn and feel they are missing out on something if they are not doing it too. Question for the older men. Before the barrage of porn sites showing women dominated by men became the norm is this something you longed for? What worries me is there is a whole generation growing up thinking this is what everyone wants and if they aren't doing it they are not meeting their sexual potential. With the recent outspokeness of women who feel they have been coerced by men how many succumb to sexual acts they do not feel comfortable with, but feel obligated.  |
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Hi Tresennui, no, I´m not into this stuff. It´s great to explore together new fields of passion, but only if both want to move forwards in that direction. In my view what you noticed is a kind of CityHookups.com marketing: some men noticed, that many women now want to be dominated while in real life they have more and more to make decisions, fight, work. It´s the 50 shades of grey effect. But not my cup of tea   Giacomo h.Casanova  Chevalier de Seingalt Mehr * More: in meinem - in my Blog and my group Casanovas Separee -Privat Chat PRIVATE POSTBOX* Giacomo Casanova in a Nutshell* Giacomo Casanova auf die Schnelle
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2/10/2018 12:56 pm |
I think of it more in the fantasy way. Would not want to hurt anybody. More of a role play turn on. I think porn does add to it.
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You're normal. No need to worry about the kinks you don't want or need. Ted
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What’s kinky or not differs from person to person. Just going by the criteria listed, (anal, dominating/being dominated, etc), I don’t think there’s anything wrong in liking it and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not liking it. The only problem is having any expectations towards liking it, or worse, having those expectations put upon you. People need to understand that it’s ok to like it, it’s also ok not to. That, I do have to blame porn for. Or wait, should I blame the internet instead, for being the vehicle. I think I blame people who cannot be discerning enough to differentiate between their choices and other peoples’ choices’, and cannot respect others for their different preferences. Does that make sense? So I can’t blame porn for it. I mean, it kinda gives us ideas on what else we can try. 😋
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Keywords for me are kink, dom and anal. I move on. For one thing I don’t think I would be pleasing to him because I am not into all that and it is a turn off for me. What I do like is passion and sensuality, not circus sex.
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Been awhile since I posted. Do we still have to write a comment to be seen?  Question for the older men. Before the barrage of porn sites showing women dominated by men became the norm is this something you longed for? Presuming I fall into the older group . . . the spank, bondage, anal, pain etc are of little interest to me. I prefer a couple nekkit bodies and some good ole rollin around on the sheets kind o thing. Far as toys go, I prefer to be the toy. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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My reply is that I don't agree with you equating "kink" with pain, or men dominating women. YES, those certainly are "kink" but kink includes many other options too, food play, public play, photos, lingerie - the list goes on and on, and one man's "kink" is another woman's "everyday". B W, on HNW Shithole Places to Visit Why You Should Title the Photos in Your Albums [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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No... I'm not into pain or dominance... but... you do find all kinds of things here... good luck with your search... Eagles - "Take It to the Limit" All alone at the end of the evening And the bright lights have faded to blue. I was thinking 'bout a woman who might have loved me I never knew. You know I've always been a dreamer Spent my life runnin' 'round And it's so hard to change Can't seem to settle down But the dreams I've seen lately keep on turning out And burning out and turning out the same. So put me on a highway and show me a sign And take it to the limit one more time. You can spend all your time making money, You can spend all your love making time. If it all fell to pieces tomorrow Would you still be mine? And when you're looking for your freedom Nobody seems to care And you can't find the door Can't find it anywhere When there's nothing to believe in still you're coming back, You're running… To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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It does seem like most (men and women) are looking for something they think they want, that is out of the norm for "love making"...there does seem to be a shit load of kinks out there though and if you role play then there are many who want some interesting things...
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Been awhile since I posted. Do we still have to write a comment to be seen?
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