Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

Dancing With The Pole  

rm_bella_ 54F
3313 posts
3/28/2009 4:49 pm
Dancing With The Pole

I am all dressed up and ready for a night out on the town. I had a half assed good week and tonight I totally feel like letting loose. Tonight I am going out with Nick and some other friends for dinner and then to a party that one of my girlfriends is having.

This must be a new fad but tonight my friends and I will be attending a pole dancing party. Sounds like fun to me. I used to be quite good at the pole near the end of my dancing days but I do remember at the beginning falling quite a bit and bruising like there was no tomorrow. Over time I learned to take advice from other dancers and even bought tapes on pole dancing. With lots of practise and patience I would say I mastered it quite well.

Now we are many years later and I am no longer a super young chicky but I am going to give it a go tonight. After a few drinks I will loosen up enough to totally let go.

Just a note. My last post seems to have attracted a hater. To be honest I dont give a shit what is said about me and not. I am secure with myself and know how crabbiness and jelousy runs rampant amoung women who are not friends. But please, if you want to hate me go for it...just dont post your disappointment with yourself and your life on my blog. If so, watch out....you have a blog also and I have 10 fingers....

Baci to all my friends,

bella


rm_usone1 69M
6677 posts
3/28/2009 5:01 pm

Would have enjoyed watching you dance the pole, would have been lustful.


edadian 49M

3/28/2009 5:22 pm

Enjoy your party!
Why don't i get invited to parties like that?


Sorceror07 61M

3/28/2009 6:21 pm

i'm sick as a dog and you still managed to make me laugh lol! *coughingmyassoff*!!! have a great time!

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...


Luvsweetly 63F

3/28/2009 11:23 pm

Yeah, Gorgeous...I will be drooling along with the men if I was there...LOL...enjoy Your evening...

TASTE LIFE IN ALL IT'S FLAVOUR


dreamsofromance 65M

3/29/2009 12:32 am

Hope you had a great time


thecat91960 63M

3/29/2009 5:04 am

Hi Bella.....I'm off the air for 3 or 4 days....and all HELL breaks loose !!!!!.....Through the sands of the our glass ,so are the days of our CityHookups.com lives.....for me "9 lives"....Soap operas, people agreeing with me on blogs,fights,intra CityHookups.com complexities of human behavior and of course in YOUR CASE ( what i like ) THE CAT FIGHT !!!!!

You held your own my dear.....we all get this once and a while....but you articuately ( with a few swear words thrown in to make sure the message got across...i liked that...some people only understand that....) stood up for yourself.....

Now the 10 finger thing is a great response, however you also have the psychology, wit, intellect,experience of friends who will shut down thr rodent population....in particular THE CAT (of non-human values...simple but also very complex )...........................

A WARNING FROM THE CAT........Wrath will follow from all angles if this kind of behavior and ugly behavioral traits continue.....YOU HAVE HIT THE CAT FRIENSHIP NETWORK.......I fight like a TIGER till the end.....I always win !!!!! Keep the comments interesting, fun,and above board....not to say you cannot disagree.....but there are ways to put things that don't offend other people........Your comments on BELLA's previous posts were tactless and show unsavory traits that are not very attractive.....Clean up your act !!!!!

Hate for no good reason creates wars.....Let this be a friendly reminder that you are dealing with a force beyond none in this case....You do not cross a friend on my Network !!!!! let me just say you have been forwarned in this particular case....Two comments....that is STRIKE 2....one more COmment....Strike 3 ,....YOUR OUT !!!!!!!!

From the confines of the Black Hole in Cyberspace.............

THE TIGER.....speaking on behalf of THE CAT FRIENDSHIP NETWORK for THE CAT...........HAVE A MEOWY DELIGHTFULL DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


thecat91960 63M

3/29/2009 6:56 am

MEOW AGAIN.........To the UNSAVORY as noted in my previous posting....I refer you to my coming out of retirement blog for a few days......It is like a covert (off friends network...of cat commandoes......).......Kinda like a NATO.........................

CAT ALERT !!!!!!!!!!!!! Educational Mews.......Growls.........

That is `thecat91960`` on your local BLOG DIAL..................

I hope you change......

THE CAT..............

P.S. How are things going BELLA....How was the dateÉ etc.


horny196364 60M

3/29/2009 7:10 am

very nice beautiful


rm_Raquehard1 54M
1734 posts
3/29/2009 7:28 am

Pole dancing, that would be one to see !!! Hope you had a great time


NickRules999 46M
9458 posts
3/29/2009 8:46 am

I wanna see.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


oldman1774 86M

3/29/2009 9:22 am

Hope you had a great night and didn't hurt yourself on the pole.

I would love to see you pole dance.

I tried to look at your haters profile and there is no such name listed on CityHookups.com. Looks like she came and left. We can do with out her kind here.


Nubiandream004 62M

3/29/2009 12:21 pm

Bella...reading about your pole dancing exploits made my 'pole dance'. Well not just reading about you pole dancing, but 'seeing' it in my mind. What was your favorite song to dance to?

"Now we are many years later and I am no longer a super young chicky..."

You're like fine wine my Dear...FINE wine.

One more thing...if you ever get the urge to go back to dancing let me know. I've got some 'fun money' stashed away and I know the perfect place to 'put it' - it's a "G" thang.

[image]


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
3/29/2009 4:50 pm

hugs bella hope you had fun my friend!!!!

[]

Seduce my mind and my body


interested13563 60M
2557 posts
3/29/2009 6:45 pm

Always have a great time. Dance your way to
the morning!


SwtItalian22 59F
197 posts
3/29/2009 7:47 pm

Have great time Bella, enjoy the night fun!!!

As for the haters on the blog, just either ignore or delete the post.
I have had my share not worth it.


ammizibad69 70M
2300 posts
3/29/2009 9:02 pm

BUTTERFLY - Jason Mraz

Taking a moment just imagining that i'm dancing with you
I'm your pole and all you're wearing is your shoes
You've got soul, you know what to do to turn me on until I write a song about you
And you have your own engaging style, you've got the knack to vivify
And you make my slacks a little tight, you may unfasten them if you like
That's if you crash and spend the night

But you don't fold, you don't fade, you got everything you need
Especially me, sister you've got it all
You make the call to make my day
In your message say my name
Your talk is all the talk, sister you've got it all

Curl your upper lip up and let me look around
Ride your tongue along your bottom lip and bite down
And bend your back and ask those hips if I can touch
Cause they're the perfect jumping off point
Getting closer to your butterfly

You float on by
Oh kiss me with your eyelashes tonight
Or Eskimo your nose real close to mine
And let's mood the lights and finally make it right

But you don't fold, you don't fade, you got everything you need
Especially me, sister you've got it all
You make the call to make my day
In your message say my name
Your talk is all the talk, sister you've got it all

You've got it all, you've got it all, you've got it all
You've got it all, you've got it all, you've got it all

Mmm mmm Doll I need to see
You pull your knee socks up
Let me feel you upside down, slide in, slide out
Slide over here, climb into my mouth now, child


Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature.
Marilyn Monroe


DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
3/30/2009 8:26 am

hmmmm, Bella on a pole....


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:41 pm

    Quoting rm_usone1:
    Would have enjoyed watching you dance the pole, would have been lustful.
Thanks but its only lustful when I dont fall off!


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:42 pm

    Quoting edadian:
    Enjoy your party!
    Why don't i get invited to parties like that?
Okay my friend, I am going to have one just so I can personally invite you!


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:43 pm

    Quoting Sorceror07:
    i'm sick as a dog and you still managed to make me laugh lol! *coughingmyassoff*!!! have a great time!
Get well my friend...cammomile tea....no!


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Now that is sexy! A bike helmut and pads.....a new fetish and I am in!


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Those tapes were popular and I have seen them but I had some real good professional ones.. Glad she is gone, I was going to visit her blog but didnt even get the chance.


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:45 pm

    Quoting  :

A pole dancing video would be cool but I need help with that one.


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:46 pm

    Quoting Luvsweetly:
    Yeah, Gorgeous...I will be drooling along with the men if I was there...LOL...enjoy Your evening...
Your too sweet girlfriend. I appreciate it.


rm_bella_ 54F
4029 posts
3/30/2009 4:46 pm

    Quoting kuriouskitty71:
    Have always wanted to give the pole a go but always end up chickening out but have done a Can-Can class which is sooo much fun.

    Love your blog Bella and deff don't think your a attention seeking white trash whatever so please keep the stories coming xx
Dont chicken out! Go for it, its a great workout and a lot of fun and you can use those moves in many places.


Become a member to create a blog