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Would you put up a nude photo of yourself on your wall at home?  

partygald 41F
3085 posts
3/13/2015 4:11 am

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3/19/2015 4:05 am

Would you put up a nude photo of yourself on your wall at home?


This is a short one. Promise

This is weird. Okay. To me it is. I met two friends for lunch earlier, and decided we'd head back to one of their place to hang out a little more. WHen we got to her place, she gave the both of us a tour of her place, showed us around. Then we got to her bedroom, and there on the wall was a poster-sized nude photograph of herself. Umm...what's weirder for me is, she's the third person I know who has a nude photo of herself blown up, no less, on their own wall. Really? Do you really need that?

I thought it was a bit narcissistic. Okay, I understand it's their home and their choice, and I am no one to judge. But....yeeesh. Heh...I still think it's a little...much. But that's just me.

What do you think? Would you, pay someone to take a nude photo of yourself, then blow it up, put it in a frame, and hang it on your wall?

Haha...sorry. I still can't stop chuckling to myself everytime I think about it...

pal334 69M  
45821 posts
3/13/2015 4:24 am

No way for me. There are people in this world that don't need to see this magnificent specimen of manhood (or more accurately be traumatized by it )

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bigtimberidge57 67M

3/13/2015 4:24 am

i think that is not very smart ...what if the kids or grandkids visit ....?


maneo69 69M
878 posts
3/13/2015 9:03 pm

Would I put up a nude photo of yourself on your wall at home?

Not likely, and certainly not one showing it was me.

However, I could understand someone single that looks great and has an artistic photo doing so.
Maybe they consider it an icebreaker or mood enhancer.


Suum cuique.


SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
3/13/2015 10:07 pm

If any part of my schoolboy education has become a lifelong maxim it is the first rule of physics which states that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. And the reason is that this don't just apply to physics but to everything under the sun including human behaviour.

So I would put nude portraits down to a cheeky swipe at the conservative tradition attitudes to nudity that still dominate social behaviour.

Obviously you have other ways of reacting which I am sure also explains why most of us are members of this site in the first place.

But all the same it is an interesting concept. It would be even more interesting adorning a dining room wall. Now that would really spice up the conversation around the dinner table. And after dinner activities also perhaps.

Just thinking aloud here but suppose I visited this friend of yours and then questioned if the picture was really her? I mean is there really any point in keeping your clothes when you have a full frontal hanging on the wall?\

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partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/13/2015 11:09 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    No way for me. There are people in this world that don't need to see this magnificent specimen of manhood (or more accurately be traumatized by it )
Aahahahahaaa!
C'mon...I'm sure you're not giving yourself enough credit


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/13/2015 11:11 pm

    Quoting bigtimberidge57:
    i think that is not very smart ...what if the kids or grandkids visit ....?
Of the three, two are single and on is attached. Neither of them have kids or grandkids. It would be interesting though, if and when they did. Would the picture still be up? Hmm..


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/13/2015 11:12 pm

    Quoting  :

My thoughts exactly. I see myself nude all the time. Given, some things change over the years, but yea, I'd rather see a nude photo of someone else But yea, a great way of preserving the moment though.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/13/2015 11:14 pm

    Quoting maneo69:
    Would I put up a nude photo of yourself on your wall at home?

    Not likely, and certainly not one showing it was me.

    However, I could understand someone single that looks great and has an artistic photo doing so.
    Maybe they consider it an icebreaker or mood enhancer.


    Suum cuique.
Yea. I suppose that would make for a fantastic icebreaker.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/13/2015 11:18 pm

    Quoting SirTeezalot:
    If any part of my schoolboy education has become a lifelong maxim it is the first rule of physics which states that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. And the reason is that this don't just apply to physics but to everything under the sun including human behaviour.

    So I would put nude portraits down to a cheeky swipe at the conservative tradition attitudes to nudity that still dominate social behaviour.

    Obviously you have other ways of reacting which I am sure also explains why most of us are members of this site in the first place.

    But all the same it is an interesting concept. It would be even more interesting adorning a dining room wall. Now that would really spice up the conversation around the dinner table. And after dinner activities also perhaps.

    Just thinking aloud here but suppose I visited this friend of yours and then questioned if the picture was really her? I mean is there really any point in keeping your clothes when you have a full frontal hanging on the wall?\
It is becoming an increasingly popular choice, or so I've noticed. Although the motivation for doing so might differ, and might not even be what you suggested. But still, what would be the point of being clothed, supposed it did hang in the living room. Ah well....soo many interpretations so many possibilities. MAybe that was the point to begin with. Hmm...maybe I shall ask them each what the motivations were. That should be interesting.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/14/2015 11:43 pm

    Quoting rockkickass69v2:
    No I wouldn't.
    I'd put one up of Partygald though!
    So send me one. LOL!
LOL
Why thank you Rock, how very kind of you
But we all know you have a few of those pictures of yourself. GO on..put one up. We know you want to..


LadyGrayLeopard 63F
26369 posts
3/15/2015 12:14 pm

Not nude but might consider something in lingerie...


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/17/2015 11:54 pm

I really wish I had more pictures of myself at earlier ages, particularly at points when I was in peak condition (most recently during 2011). I also wish I had more pictures of my wife at points when she was in peak condition, particularly in 2009 and 2011. For each of us, that would include nice portraits that we could share with relatives, artistic nudes we would mostly keep to ourselves, and erotic nudes we could use for our own arousal. We're attracted to each other just fine as we are now, but it could be stimulating to check out hot pictures of each other right before getting busy.

We also wish we had some erotic videos of ourselves. We tried to make one in 2010 or 2011, when we both looked pretty darn hot, but I was so worked up in anticipation of sex with her -- particularly on-camera sex with her -- that I messed up the camera settings and ended up with nothing. That's an understandable mistake; we were both very aroused. But the really foolish thing was that we didn't make another attempt at the video back then.

We're still very attracted to each other, but it would be nice to be able to look back at ourselves when we looked our best. As far as I'm concerned, that would have been the best possible porn.

We'll still probably try again with the video, particularly if we can find someone we're comfortable with to work the camera. Likewise, we'll probably have some art-nude and erotic nude portraits done of ourselves. But we aren't likely to look as good as we did in 2011, during which we don't have any good nudes of ourselves.

- - -

OK, that was a long ramble that went a bit off topic. What you're really asking about isn't whether one would like to have art-nudes or erotic pictures of one's self, but whether one would like to have such pictures on the wall.

Simple answer: on the wall is another story.

No, nudes of ourselves would be somewhere out of public view. Our bedroom is mostly private, but not entirely. I suspect that the cleaning lady would be shocked. Neither my mother nor my wife's is all that respectful of private space. My mother would probably be shocked. Her mother would probably say something like, "What if the cleaning lady saw this?"

On the other hand, it might be nice to have such pictures, possibly even in poster size, to hang on the walls for special occasions: anniversary sex, birthday sex, make-up-an-occasion sex. It might also be fun to help set the mood, in the event that we ever find someone we want to try a threesome with.

So, to answer about your friend, maybe she had the picture hanging up specifically in anticipation of you seeing it; maybe she wants to hint to you that she'd like to fool around with you. Or maybe it's there in anticipation of other potential sex partners, to get them into the mood, and you just got to see it incidentally.

Of course it's also possible that it's narcissism, but I suspect that it's more likely meant to get some visitors to her her bedroom into the mood.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/19/2015 4:05 am

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    I really wish I had more pictures of myself at earlier ages, particularly at points when I was in peak condition (most recently during 2011). I also wish I had more pictures of my wife at points when she was in peak condition, particularly in 2009 and 2011. For each of us, that would include nice portraits that we could share with relatives, artistic nudes we would mostly keep to ourselves, and erotic nudes we could use for our own arousal. We're attracted to each other just fine as we are now, but it could be stimulating to check out hot pictures of each other right before getting busy.

    We also wish we had some erotic videos of ourselves. We tried to make one in 2010 or 2011, when we both looked pretty darn hot, but I was so worked up in anticipation of sex with her -- particularly on-camera sex with her -- that I messed up the camera settings and ended up with nothing. That's an understandable mistake; we were both very aroused. But the really foolish thing was that we didn't make another attempt at the video back then.

    We're still very attracted to each other, but it would be nice to be able to look back at ourselves when we looked our best. As far as I'm concerned, that would have been the best possible porn.

    We'll still probably try again with the video, particularly if we can find someone we're comfortable with to work the camera. Likewise, we'll probably have some art-nude and erotic nude portraits done of ourselves. But we aren't likely to look as good as we did in 2011, during which we don't have any good nudes of ourselves.

    - - -

    OK, that was a long ramble that went a bit off topic. What you're really asking about isn't whether one would like to have art-nudes or erotic pictures of one's self, but whether one would like to have such pictures on the wall.

    Simple answer: on the wall is another story.

    No, nudes of ourselves would be somewhere out of public view. Our bedroom is mostly private, but not entirely. I suspect that the cleaning lady would be shocked. Neither my mother nor my wife's is all that respectful of private space. My mother would probably be shocked. Her mother would probably say something like, "What if the cleaning lady saw this?"

    On the other hand, it might be nice to have such pictures, possibly even in poster size, to hang on the walls for special occasions: anniversary sex, birthday sex, make-up-an-occasion sex. It might also be fun to help set the mood, in the event that we ever find someone we want to try a threesome with.

    So, to answer about your friend, maybe she had the picture hanging up specifically in anticipation of you seeing it; maybe she wants to hint to you that she'd like to fool around with you. Or maybe it's there in anticipation of other potential sex partners, to get them into the mood, and you just got to see it incidentally.

    Of course it's also possible that it's narcissism, but I suspect that it's more likely meant to get some visitors to her her bedroom into the mood.
Now THAT, is a long one
ANd thank you for taking the time and effort to leave a comment, Um..I am pretty certain it's (the nude poster-sized picture of herself on her bedroom wall) not for the sake of attracting the people that were in the room with her at the time (myself and another female friend). For one, I don't think so, am certain of it. Two, she doesn't bat for the same team.

So that's why i was asking if it's narcissism. However, after reading the comments from a few others, as well as asking a few of my other friend's thoughts, I think it could be more along the lines of arty-farty-reminder-of-yourself-looking-good-while-you're-in-good-shape kinda thing. It WAS a nicely done photo. Ah well...who's to say, right? She can be a little self absorbed at times....but don't we all...


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