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Another tale of a nocturnal creature  

40Deuce 46M
4634 posts
10/22/2017 9:56 am

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Another tale of a nocturnal creature


I accidentally turn on the local news this morning and they reported that a fellow , believed to be under the influence of methamphetamine , crawled in the window of a house and took a little catnap before he started rummaging around and doing meth-head stuff . This woke the residents of said house who came out and were startled to find a dude in their home . So the guy tackled him and the woman started wailing on him with a ball bat .

Over the years I've struggled with trying to figure out what I really want in a relationship but I think this is it . I'm not saying I want someone who's<b> violent </font></b>and will wail on a dude with a bat , and I'm not saying I want someone who will "back me up" . But what moved me is that these two were operating as a team . It wasn't the old trope of "I heard a noise you go check it out" they went together . And when the shit went down they both moved the same direction .

That's what I want . I've never been in a relationship where I felt like we were on the same page . She was doing her thing , I was doing my thing , and there was some overlap there but at the end of the day there was no "us" . Such as , I've never had something happen and thought "Oh man , I need to call Rebethany she'll help me out of this jam" . I want to be a unit . We're either going down together or we're both coming out the other side .

Of course the reality is probably that as soon as the cops took the dude away they started sniping at each other about who was supposed to shut the window .

"God damn it Diane I told you to shut that window ! But nooooo you had to have your natural air . What does that even mean ! Air is air Diane !"

"Fuck you Tony , I was in bed at 10 . YOU were up until midnight playing fucking X-Box with your moron friends - why didn't you shut the window !"

And so forth .

He didn't steal anything and the didn't break in , so what , is that just trespassing ?

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
10/22/2017 9:57 am

I think I'm going to eat a cookie today

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/22/2017 10:41 am

I agree, for a couple to be able to act together that way in an emergency is a sign that they probably have a pretty great relationship.

Do you REALLY want to be part of a unit though? How do couples become a unit and yet avoid the dread "joined at the hip" syndrome where neither one has any independent interests?

I will say, there were lots of long term couples on my trip (obviously, since most of the passengers were over 70) and almost all of them interacted really well. It gives one hope that such a thing is actually possible.


40Deuce replies on 10/23/2017 5:57 pm:
I don't know , but I'd like to believe there's a middle ground

superbjversion2 69F  
24388 posts
10/22/2017 11:56 am

As long as Diane didn't turn the bat on Tony while arguing over the window, I'd say their relationship is solid!

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40Deuce replies on 10/23/2017 5:58 pm:
That bar may be too low , but that standard all my relationships have been great . Maybe they have been and I just don't know it

wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
10/23/2017 11:54 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    As long as Diane didn't turn the bat on Tony while arguing over the window, I'd say their relationship is solid!
good point.

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